"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Aight so i got to dates tomorrow, so just out of curiousity, how well has flakin on chicks worked for ya'll? Has it had negative affects or positive ones for ya'll? And whats a good reason to give when you do it?
Holla Back at you boy ya'll

DMoney

"Never let you sight blind your vision"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DeerickMo said:
Aight so i got to dates tomorrow, so just out of curiousity, how well has flakin on chicks worked for ya'll? Has it had negative affects or positive ones for ya'll? And whats a good reason to give when you do it?
Holla Back at you boy ya'll

DMoney

"Never let you sight blind your vision"
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What is the purpose of flaking out on chicks? When I set up a date, I make it clear that when I make an appointment of any kind, I keep it and I expect her to do the same.

I don't see any positives from flaking, if you want to demonstrate value and convey a sense of scarceness there are plenty of other ways to do it.
 
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Lol I tend to try and double book because its a defense from getting flaked on lol. Flakin isnt apart of my game either, it just so happened that way this time around that i have two appointments and i have to choose between one because of my schedule.
 
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DeerickMo said:
Lol I tend to try and double book because its a defense from getting flaked on lol. Flakin isnt apart of my game either, it just so happened that way this time around that i have two appointments and i have to choose between one because of my schedule.
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You double book dates? Are you an airline or something?
 
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I don't really do that on purpose, sometimes I just planned to meet someone then I cannot. Some people get mad, others don't. I haven't really noticed any specific pattern. I should also tell you that I don't see single women anymore, so that may affect my results.

On one of David D's interview series a guy describes inviting 2 women to the same place at the same time. I think that would be pretty funny.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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