You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What is the purpose of flaking out on chicks? When I set up a date, I make it clear that when I make an appointment of any kind, I keep it and I expect her to do the same.DeerickMo said:Aight so i got to dates tomorrow, so just out of curiousity, how well has flakin on chicks worked for ya'll? Has it had negative affects or positive ones for ya'll? And whats a good reason to give when you do it?
Holla Back at you boy ya'll
DMoney
"Never let you sight blind your vision"
You double book dates? Are you an airline or something?DeerickMo said:Lol I tend to try and double book because its a defense from getting flaked on lol. Flakin isnt apart of my game either, it just so happened that way this time around that i have two appointments and i have to choose between one because of my schedule.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.