"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
First Time Sexual Intercourse
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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LuvMyArmyMan
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Recently, an ex of mine contacted me and confessed quite a lot to me that i never knew ... anyways, we only had sex once and he said that he was a virgin, and i let "So that explains a lot" slip out ..... well i finally understood why it was so bad.
Be forewarned.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Some people have it in them, regardless if they are virgins or not, and some ppl need practice at it for it to become good and for them to know what they are doing. I have heard lots of stories about girls not being able to tell that the guy was a virgin and that he was so good in bed, yet was a virgin.
So thats a generalisation, not all men genuingly suck in bed. jb131: Dont be let down by what LuvMyArmyMan said, she is talking about her own personal experiences and using them as generalisations, which are not true. So go with it, and give it your all, and you should be fine. If you ACT nervous and ARE nervous and scared that u'll f*ck up, then THATS what will give u away... Go go there and do what u gotta do and just chill and take it easy
Laterz...
WORKEROUTER
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What are some good ways to help achieve giving my gf an orgasm, without going down on her? She claims she's never had an orgasm before. I try to go in as deep as possible and try to vary up the tempo, but I still can't seem to get her to orgasm. Usually, I'm on top.
I feel like I am doing the same thing everytime, and I don't want it to get boring. Any tips or suggestions would be helpful.
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If a girl claims to be cumming while you're banging her, she is most likely faking it.
It's nothing to worry about. It's the girls problem, not yours.
flyinshark
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Yeah, i think indeed more than half of them can't reach orgasm through intercourse. I mean, they theoretically could, but it just takes them waaaay too long.
The solution could be to stimulate their cl!t instead. Many of them are used to that kinda stimulation and it they will reach orgasm faster that way. Use a finger if you don't wanna go down on them. Or, make them stimulate it themselves. They are most probably used to doing it.
That's from personal experience, so don't take it as a generalization.
girls tend to come ALOT easier if they are confortable with the guy and its more about there state of mind.
but i a trick to beat all that..
f*ck her in a position where she is able to rub her own cl*t whilst you're boning her.
tell that it turns YOU of if she rubs her cl*t.
she'll feel comfortable doing it, and will be in control of her own orgasm.
*i read that tip here somewhere, and it really does work.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.