"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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LuvMyArmyMan
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Recently, an ex of mine contacted me and confessed quite a lot to me that i never knew ... anyways, we only had sex once and he said that he was a virgin, and i let "So that explains a lot" slip out ..... well i finally understood why it was so bad.
Be forewarned.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Some people have it in them, regardless if they are virgins or not, and some ppl need practice at it for it to become good and for them to know what they are doing. I have heard lots of stories about girls not being able to tell that the guy was a virgin and that he was so good in bed, yet was a virgin.
So thats a generalisation, not all men genuingly suck in bed. jb131: Dont be let down by what LuvMyArmyMan said, she is talking about her own personal experiences and using them as generalisations, which are not true. So go with it, and give it your all, and you should be fine. If you ACT nervous and ARE nervous and scared that u'll f*ck up, then THATS what will give u away... Go go there and do what u gotta do and just chill and take it easy
Laterz...
WORKEROUTER
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What are some good ways to help achieve giving my gf an orgasm, without going down on her? She claims she's never had an orgasm before. I try to go in as deep as possible and try to vary up the tempo, but I still can't seem to get her to orgasm. Usually, I'm on top.
I feel like I am doing the same thing everytime, and I don't want it to get boring. Any tips or suggestions would be helpful.
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If a girl claims to be cumming while you're banging her, she is most likely faking it.
It's nothing to worry about. It's the girls problem, not yours.
flyinshark
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Yeah, i think indeed more than half of them can't reach orgasm through intercourse. I mean, they theoretically could, but it just takes them waaaay too long.
The solution could be to stimulate their cl!t instead. Many of them are used to that kinda stimulation and it they will reach orgasm faster that way. Use a finger if you don't wanna go down on them. Or, make them stimulate it themselves. They are most probably used to doing it.
That's from personal experience, so don't take it as a generalization.
girls tend to come ALOT easier if they are confortable with the guy and its more about there state of mind.
but i a trick to beat all that..
f*ck her in a position where she is able to rub her own cl*t whilst you're boning her.
tell that it turns YOU of if she rubs her cl*t.
she'll feel comfortable doing it, and will be in control of her own orgasm.
*i read that tip here somewhere, and it really does work.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.