“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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Recently, an ex of mine contacted me and confessed quite a lot to me that i never knew ... anyways, we only had sex once and he said that he was a virgin, and i let "So that explains a lot" slip out ..... well i finally understood why it was so bad.
Be forewarned.
Some people have it in them, regardless if they are virgins or not, and some ppl need practice at it for it to become good and for them to know what they are doing. I have heard lots of stories about girls not being able to tell that the guy was a virgin and that he was so good in bed, yet was a virgin.
So thats a generalisation, not all men genuingly suck in bed. jb131: Dont be let down by what LuvMyArmyMan said, she is talking about her own personal experiences and using them as generalisations, which are not true. So go with it, and give it your all, and you should be fine. If you ACT nervous and ARE nervous and scared that u'll f*ck up, then THATS what will give u away... Go go there and do what u gotta do and just chill and take it easy
Laterz...
WORKEROUTER
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What are some good ways to help achieve giving my gf an orgasm, without going down on her? She claims she's never had an orgasm before. I try to go in as deep as possible and try to vary up the tempo, but I still can't seem to get her to orgasm. Usually, I'm on top.
I feel like I am doing the same thing everytime, and I don't want it to get boring. Any tips or suggestions would be helpful.
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If a girl claims to be cumming while you're banging her, she is most likely faking it.
It's nothing to worry about. It's the girls problem, not yours.
flyinshark
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Yeah, i think indeed more than half of them can't reach orgasm through intercourse. I mean, they theoretically could, but it just takes them waaaay too long.
The solution could be to stimulate their cl!t instead. Many of them are used to that kinda stimulation and it they will reach orgasm faster that way. Use a finger if you don't wanna go down on them. Or, make them stimulate it themselves. They are most probably used to doing it.
That's from personal experience, so don't take it as a generalization.
girls tend to come ALOT easier if they are confortable with the guy and its more about there state of mind.
but i a trick to beat all that..
f*ck her in a position where she is able to rub her own cl*t whilst you're boning her.
tell that it turns YOU of if she rubs her cl*t.
she'll feel comfortable doing it, and will be in control of her own orgasm.
*i read that tip here somewhere, and it really does work.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.