"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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LuvMyArmyMan
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Recently, an ex of mine contacted me and confessed quite a lot to me that i never knew ... anyways, we only had sex once and he said that he was a virgin, and i let "So that explains a lot" slip out ..... well i finally understood why it was so bad.
Be forewarned.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Some people have it in them, regardless if they are virgins or not, and some ppl need practice at it for it to become good and for them to know what they are doing. I have heard lots of stories about girls not being able to tell that the guy was a virgin and that he was so good in bed, yet was a virgin.
So thats a generalisation, not all men genuingly suck in bed. jb131: Dont be let down by what LuvMyArmyMan said, she is talking about her own personal experiences and using them as generalisations, which are not true. So go with it, and give it your all, and you should be fine. If you ACT nervous and ARE nervous and scared that u'll f*ck up, then THATS what will give u away... Go go there and do what u gotta do and just chill and take it easy
Laterz...
WORKEROUTER
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What are some good ways to help achieve giving my gf an orgasm, without going down on her? She claims she's never had an orgasm before. I try to go in as deep as possible and try to vary up the tempo, but I still can't seem to get her to orgasm. Usually, I'm on top.
I feel like I am doing the same thing everytime, and I don't want it to get boring. Any tips or suggestions would be helpful.
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If a girl claims to be cumming while you're banging her, she is most likely faking it.
It's nothing to worry about. It's the girls problem, not yours.
flyinshark
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Yeah, i think indeed more than half of them can't reach orgasm through intercourse. I mean, they theoretically could, but it just takes them waaaay too long.
The solution could be to stimulate their cl!t instead. Many of them are used to that kinda stimulation and it they will reach orgasm faster that way. Use a finger if you don't wanna go down on them. Or, make them stimulate it themselves. They are most probably used to doing it.
That's from personal experience, so don't take it as a generalization.
girls tend to come ALOT easier if they are confortable with the guy and its more about there state of mind.
but i a trick to beat all that..
f*ck her in a position where she is able to rub her own cl*t whilst you're boning her.
tell that it turns YOU of if she rubs her cl*t.
she'll feel comfortable doing it, and will be in control of her own orgasm.
*i read that tip here somewhere, and it really does work.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.