"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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First threesome, poor me

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Luscious

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God no.

I'm homophobic and I love it. The only threesome is with one man and two women.

I don't care if you could see him or not or anything. That's just disgusting.
 

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Way to be secure with yourself. Don't be such a ignorant guy. This topic is old.
 

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Originally posted by Finch
Way to be secure with yourself. Don't be such a ignorant guy. This topic is old.
Getting down with another guy on a girl isn't being insecure, it's being stupid.

For goodness' sake, just get a blowup doll and you guys can do that when you're not tapping her. Sheesh.
 

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Don't be so ridiculous. It's not like I got down with him. I didn't touch him or see him at all. If you're that insecure with yourself than it's really your loss. I'm secure with myself enough to not think it's that big of a deal. If you want to live your life with those boundaries set up around you, that's fine. The boundaries that I'm referring to are your homophobic boundaries. I'm not saying you should embrace touching other men, having a threesome with two guys and a girl, etc. But just because you think that you're this macho man doesn't mean you really are, and it doesn't make you right either. I'd call it ignorance more than anything.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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