"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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First threesome, poor me

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Luscious

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God no.

I'm homophobic and I love it. The only threesome is with one man and two women.

I don't care if you could see him or not or anything. That's just disgusting.
 

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Way to be secure with yourself. Don't be such a ignorant guy. This topic is old.
 

Luscious

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Originally posted by Finch
Way to be secure with yourself. Don't be such a ignorant guy. This topic is old.
Getting down with another guy on a girl isn't being insecure, it's being stupid.

For goodness' sake, just get a blowup doll and you guys can do that when you're not tapping her. Sheesh.
 

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Don't be so ridiculous. It's not like I got down with him. I didn't touch him or see him at all. If you're that insecure with yourself than it's really your loss. I'm secure with myself enough to not think it's that big of a deal. If you want to live your life with those boundaries set up around you, that's fine. The boundaries that I'm referring to are your homophobic boundaries. I'm not saying you should embrace touching other men, having a threesome with two guys and a girl, etc. But just because you think that you're this macho man doesn't mean you really are, and it doesn't make you right either. I'd call it ignorance more than anything.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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