First rule of fight club - always wear a condom , bj included

[Bigpapa]

Besides condoms, the best thing you can do to avoid STDs is staying sober

a lot of lessons learned today

thank you guys for all the good replies

 

[TheProspect]

women good at sex are most likely to have something dodgy , as you need a lot of practice to get good at this

Not necessarily true.

For three reasons,

1) A girl can practice a lot with one partner, assuming she wants to put in the effort to learn or if the guy goes out of his way to train her.

2) Mind-body connection. Some people are naturally in tune with their bodies and know how to move it. An analogy would be yoga (I'm a yoga instructor), some people who are working out for the first time instinctively know how to position & align their bodies into the poses with little instruction or correction, whereas some people have been coming to my classes regularly & practice a lot and still can't seem to figure it out (or progress very slowly) despite how much corrective instruction they receive.

3) Good at reading their partners. Some girls are just better at reading the reactions of their partners and responding accordingly.


So women who are good at sex are not more likely to have something dodgy, all else being equal.

A more correct way to phrase your statement could be that "women who have more sexual partners, and who have sex more indiscriminately, are more likely to have something dodgy."

 

[SirBigBell]

Not necessarily true.

For three reasons,

1) A girl can practice a lot with one partner, assuming she wants to put in the effort to learn or if the guy goes out of his way to train her.

2) Mind-body connection. Some people are naturally in tune with their bodies and know how to move it. An analogy would be yoga (I'm a yoga instructor), some people who are working out for the first time instinctively know how to position & align their bodies into the poses with little instruction or correction, whereas some people have been coming to my classes regularly & practice a lot and still can't seem to figure it out (or progress very slowly) despite how much corrective instruction they receive.

3) Good at reading their partners. Some girls are just better at reading the reactions of their partners and responding accordingly.


So women who are good at sex are not more likely to have something dodgy, all else being equal.

A more correct way to phrase your statement could be that "women who have more sexual partners, and who have sex more indiscriminately, are more likely to have something dodgy."

Do you find easy pickings from your yoga classes? Women love yoga and some of those poses are sure to get their juices flowing. Just curious

 

[Bigpapa]

Not necessarily true.

For three reasons,

1) A girl can practice a lot with one partner, assuming she wants to put in the effort to learn or if the guy goes out of his way to train her.

2) Mind-body connection. Some people are naturally in tune with their bodies and know how to move it. An analogy would be yoga (I'm a yoga instructor), some people who are working out for the first time instinctively know how to position & align their bodies into the poses with little instruction or correction, whereas some people have been coming to my classes regularly & practice a lot and still can't seem to figure it out (or progress very slowly) despite how much corrective instruction they receive.

3) Good at reading their partners. Some girls are just better at reading the reactions of their partners and responding accordingly.


So women who are good at sex are not more likely to have something dodgy, all else being equal.

A more correct way to phrase your statement could be that "women who have more sexual partners, and who have sex more indiscriminately, are more likely to have something dodgy."

the only problem that it is with you statement is that you do not know how promiscuous she is till it is too late

with rest I totally agree , but sometimes it is too difficult to made a read if the chemistry is indeed good or she is just a cluster b or something

good chemistry and cluster b are very difficult to differentiate most of the times

 

[Bigpapa]

Also my **** gets hard after the antibiotic shot , so hopefully my **** will not fall off

 

[TheProspect]

Do you find easy pickings from your yoga classes? Women love yoga and some of those poses are sure to get their juices flowing. Just curious

Indirectly, if that makes sense.

I don't directly approach & ask out women who I first met from them taking my classes. Frankly because it's unprofessional and there's a variety of ethical implications. I invested into becoming a yoga instructor because I like yoga and wanted to instruct classes as a part-time job while I'm university, not because I wanted to find a crafty way of meeting chicks.

However, remaining professional with good intentions has allowed me to build comfort and rapport with clients, and thus I've developed a nice social circle. I'm often invited to gatherings and introduced to clients' friends, "Omg TheProspect, you should meet my friend ____, you guys would hit it off great!", "You should come to X this weekend, a bunch of us are going!". One cougar even wanted to introduce me to her daughter lol.

I take my reputation as an instructor seriously though. I have access to women and get laid outside of where I work, no need to sh!t where I eat, especially in that type of industry.... All it takes is one scorned woman to slander me out of it. Not worth the risk.

And yes, there is a HUGE double standard, and if the gender roles were reversed I'd be considered a constant victim of sexual harassment lol.

 

[Grinderman]

“My ethic is: ‘Eat, drink and be merry, for tomorrow we die.’ You can be as careful as you want, but you’re going to die anyway, so why not have fun?”
― Lemmy Kilmister

 

[Bigpapa]

This is true. For a long time I thought I just wasn't into BJ's. They're still not my favorite thing. But at a wedding a couple years back, a bridesmaid gave me one. She seemed to have a real thirst for it. Was on the heavier side so maybe that's why. In any case, it was the first time in many years that I'd enjoyed head.

put A condom from now on haha

 

[mrgoodstuff]

One of my mates 3 week's ago got covid after banging a chick.. He has been unwell since.. Not only do we have STD to worry about, we got an added health risk to think about too.

Imagine that. Nervous system degradation and difficult breathing due to sex.

 

[SirBigBell]

Indirectly, if that makes sense.

I don't directly approach & ask out women who I first met from them taking my classes. Frankly because it's unprofessional and there's a variety of ethical implications. I invested into becoming a yoga instructor because I like yoga and wanted to instruct classes as a part-time job while I'm university, not because I wanted to find a crafty way of meeting chicks.

However, remaining professional with good intentions has allowed me to build comfort and rapport with clients, and thus I've developed a nice social circle. I'm often invited to gatherings and introduced to clients' friends, "Omg TheProspect, you should meet my friend ____, you guys would hit it off great!", "You should come to X this weekend, a bunch of us are going!". One cougar even wanted to introduce me to her daughter lol.

I take my reputation as an instructor seriously though. I have access to women and get laid outside of where I work, no need to sh!t where I eat, especially in that type of industry.... All it takes is one scorned woman to slander me out of it. Not worth the risk.

And yes, there is a HUGE double standard, and if the gender roles were reversed I'd be considered a constant victim of sexual harassment lol.

Thats a very comprehensive and clear response. I often wondered, but wasnt close enough to any of the very few yoga instructors around to ask. Thank you

 

[f(x)]

BJ + T1tty Fcuk combo is the best.

 

[SirBigBell]

BJ + T1tty Fcuk combo is the best.

Dude that only works for those blessed with length. Most guys just disappear in the boobs and the head never pops up on the other side to be licked and sucked on haha.

 

[RickTheToad]

Got a nasty thing on my little boy from a bj

the funny thing is that she looked like a normal girl , not in a million years I would have thought that I would get something from her from an unprotected bj

kings remember , protection first

now I am incapacitated for at least 2 weeks ...

Ur lucky it's not da herp. No dude should stick their member into anything unprotected without a STD full panel test. Period. Count your lucky stars it's just a bacteria and not a virus.

 

[Bigpapa]

Ur lucky it's not da herp. No dude should stick their member into anything unprotected without a STD full panel test. Period. Count your lucky stars it's just a bacteria and not a virus.

I will take the full medication for both bacteria and viruses just to be on the safe side

I would say that this is quite the biggest drawback from Not being in a monogamous relationship , as the chances of getting something goes higher and higher with each lay

never thought that you can get anything from just a bj , but lesson learned the hard way

 

[manfrombelow]

Let me guess, OP, your d!ck feels like its pissing razors everytime you take a leak?

I've been there myself. That's nasty.

 

[Bigpapa]

Let me guess, OP, your d!ck feels like its pissing razors everytime you take a leak?

I've been there myself. That's nasty.

yep , actually I feel better after the first antibiotic shot . It does not hurt as it used to hurt , but still not 100% recovered

 

[firstbornunicorn]

I failed this already this weekend. Condom sex is terrible, I'd rather read a book.

Pretty sure she was clean though, works in a hospital and gets checked regularly. I will go for a check asap. On our first time a few weeks ago she demanded a condom (and for first times I always do), but this time it just happened. Wasn't on the pill though so I had to be careful.

 

[Bigpapa]

I failed this already this weekend. Condom sex is terrible, I'd rather read a book.

Pretty sure she was clean though, works in a hospital and gets checked regularly. I will go for a check asap. On our first time a few weeks ago she demanded a condom (and for first times I always do), but this time it just happened. Wasn't on the pill though so I had to be careful.

if I were you , I would do an std check every 6 months , just to be on the safe side

some diseases have no symptoms , or if they have it is too late

thinking now about this incident , I am starting to think that a monogamous relationship it is not that bad . Sure you get annoyed , but if you do a good screening , your chances of getting something diminish drastically

 

[firstbornunicorn]

if I were you , I would do an std check every 6 months , just to be on the safe side

some diseases have no symptoms , or if they have it is too late

thinking now about this incident , I am starting to think that a monogamous relationship it is not that bad . Sure you get annoyed , but if you do a good screening , your chances of getting something diminish drastically

I have only gotten one test like a year ago and it was all clean. I'm with so few people that I always end up forgetting, and never had any symptoms so it just slips my mind. If I had something I'm sure someone I have been with would have said something(2 since that test). But I realize this is walking on thin ice.

Monogamy is great and this is one of the reasons. 100%. Never felt the annoyance tbh. If the match is right I'd **** the same chick until I can't get it up anymore.

 

[soulforge]

So update , it is an std as the urine sample said that it is not an urinary infection

got my first antibiotic shot in the ass , and have to go tomorrow at a specialist to do all the tests and continue the treatment

what a time to be alive !

Throw some covid into the mix too.. I wonder how you would handle and std and covid at the same time?