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Let me guess, OP, your d!ck feels like its pissing razors everytime you take a leak?

I've been there myself. That's nasty.
yep , actually I feel better after the first antibiotic shot . It does not hurt as it used to hurt , but still not 100% recovered
 

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I failed this already this weekend. Condom sex is terrible, I'd rather read a book.

Pretty sure she was clean though, works in a hospital and gets checked regularly. I will go for a check asap. On our first time a few weeks ago she demanded a condom (and for first times I always do), but this time it just happened. Wasn't on the pill though so I had to be careful.
 

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I failed this already this weekend. Condom sex is terrible, I'd rather read a book.

Pretty sure she was clean though, works in a hospital and gets checked regularly. I will go for a check asap. On our first time a few weeks ago she demanded a condom (and for first times I always do), but this time it just happened. Wasn't on the pill though so I had to be careful.
if I were you , I would do an std check every 6 months , just to be on the safe side

some diseases have no symptoms , or if they have it is too late

thinking now about this incident , I am starting to think that a monogamous relationship it is not that bad . Sure you get annoyed , but if you do a good screening , your chances of getting something diminish drastically
 

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if I were you , I would do an std check every 6 months , just to be on the safe side

some diseases have no symptoms , or if they have it is too late

thinking now about this incident , I am starting to think that a monogamous relationship it is not that bad . Sure you get annoyed , but if you do a good screening , your chances of getting something diminish drastically
I have only gotten one test like a year ago and it was all clean. I'm with so few people that I always end up forgetting, and never had any symptoms so it just slips my mind. If I had something I'm sure someone I have been with would have said something(2 since that test). But I realize this is walking on thin ice.

Monogamy is great and this is one of the reasons. 100%. Never felt the annoyance tbh. If the match is right I'd **** the same chick until I can't get it up anymore.
 

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So update , it is an std as the urine sample said that it is not an urinary infection

got my first antibiotic shot in the ass , and have to go tomorrow at a specialist to do all the tests and continue the treatment

what a time to be alive !
Throw some covid into the mix too.. I wonder how you would handle and std and covid at the same time?
 

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This is mainly a notice for myself

I realized that every time I go to a doctor for an an std check or to get treatment I am always either sl8t shamed by the women , and patronized by the men

this got me feeling on why they are doing this , especially the older ones

after a lot of experiences I realized that mainly they do this because of frustration

at some point I found a guy that was a medic with this kind of expertise and I remember having the check , gave me the prescription and then talked like 2h about women and picking up . We even became wings a short while

more or less I think that it is a fact of the grape s are sour when you can reach them , same with the rich people . They are hated because most people want to be like them and they can not

being a ladies men is not something that people in general like , so as a rule is good that most things you should keep to yourself

this is actually a reason on why people in general unhappy and never really do that much to improve , because in the moment they see someone who has things that the other one desires , instead of talking to him to see how he can get that , the other person starts acting b8tt hurt and having an attitude
 

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I will take the full medication for both bacteria and viruses just to be on the safe side

I would say that this is quite the biggest drawback from Not being in a monogamous relationship , as the chances of getting something goes higher and higher with each lay

never thought that you can get anything from just a bj , but lesson learned the hard way
Used to do what you guys did a lot. Multiple females and unprotected BJs. I then got molluscum contagiosum and changed my ways. It's just too dangerous nowadays. We have dudes (and many females) coming in with more than one STD. They as how can this happen? I've been careful. Well, HPV, molluscum contagiosum and HSV 1/2 are all transmitted through skin contact. In fact, Syphilis can also be transferred from skin to skin contact. Just too dangerous for the risk of an incurable disease. Super Gonorrhea is becoming a huge concern too.
 

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Got a nasty thing on my little boy from a bj

the funny thing is that she looked like a normal girl , not in a million years I would have thought that I would get something from her from an unprotected bj

kings remember , protection first

now I am incapacitated for at least 2 weeks ...
Dude. Same thing happened to me last month! Not sure if her tooth nicked me or something (didn't feel any crazy pain or anything during), but I had irritation and redness as well as painful urination for 2 weeks. Got every STD test and tested for UTI. NOTHING. (I even got my fuucking prostate checked because I thought it could be prostatitis from an infection hahaha). Finally saw a urologist who told me that this is something he calls "new bachelor syndrome" (made a joke that there is no real medical diagnosis), but essentially I went from having sex with one person prior to my divorce (which, we were barely having sex anyways), to a bunch of new women. Some women's microbiomes in their mouths, on their skin, or in/on their vagina can sometimes cause irritation like I had. He said it's not super common, but I guess the microbiome within this woman's mouth just didn't 'agree' with my member.
 

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(knock knock on wood )

took the rest of the treatment and it does not hurt when I piss . So I already see improvements . This is a good news at least
If you're feeling better already from antibiotics it was likely chlamydia or gonorrhea. It's very good that you were proactive about it before symptoms worsened buddy. When I went to urgent care initially they offered me a shot in the ass for gono and the oral antibiotics for chlamydia prior to the testing coming back just to be proactive. I said - "hit me Doc".
 

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This is mainly a notice for myself

I realized that every time I go to a doctor for an an std check or to get treatment I am always either sl8t shamed by the women , and patronized by the men

this got me feeling on why they are doing this , especially the older ones
Never be ashamed for taking ownership of your health. That includes your sexual equipment.

I can count the number of times I raw dogged on one hand and it’s only happened in LTR. I also don’t let random chicks suck me off nor will I eat them. Wrap your shvt, men. I’m fortunate to have never caught anything. I get STD check every year at the primary care physician and another screening when I donate blood.

@soulforge the past year I added covid antibodies to the list of tests. I had none. I presumably have them now since being fully vaccinated a couple weeks ago.
 

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Any other symptoms man? I feel your pain. Like I said, I literally just went through this and I was freaking out. @RickTheToad can tell you... :lol:
only this , my penis being super red and feeling like pissing knifes

I would also add that it took a while till the urine would reach out while pissing , and could feel it how slowly was coming down , and I did not have a lot of debit while urinating . Little by little

The urine color was quite brown and had quite an acidic smell

the good thing is that my urine color got yellow now and looks towards normal , and the urine debit also improved a lot and i do not feel pain while urinating

I started today also the oral antibiotics cure , after the antibiotic shot yesterday in the ass :

- 2 tablets of azythromycin 500 mg once
- doxycycline 100 mg twice a day for 7 days

now I am going to another medic to give me the PEP , so I reduce the risk of something that is possible incurable

putting the armor

I am doing the pep 2nd time in 2 years . This **** ain’t funny
 

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Never be ashamed for taking ownership of your health. That includes your sexual equipment.

I can count the number of times I raw dogged on one hand and it’s only happened in LTR. I also don’t let random chicks suck me off nor will I eat them. Wrap your shvt, men. I’m fortunate to have never caught anything. I get STD check every year at the primary care physician and another screening when I donate blood.

@soulforge the past year I added covid antibodies to the list of tests. I had none. I presumably have them now since being fully vaccinated a couple weeks ago.
I totally agree about keeping safe & wrapping up.. However how the fuk do we get around the covid19 situation?

A dose of Chlamydia seems much more appealing right now, than a dose of Covid-19 which lands you in the hospital.

The risks of random sex & hook ups, has massively increased... I have to be honest, I am thinking twice before I even consider having sex with a random right now.
 

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I totally agree about keeping safe & wrapping up.. However how the fuk do we get around the covid19 situation?

A dose of Chlamydia seems much more appealing right now, than a dose of Covid-19 which lands you in the hospital.

The risks of random sex & hook ups, has massively increased... I have to be honest, I am thinking twice before I even consider having sex with a random right now.
The risk of covid from one Individual person is infinitesimal. People got it from superspreader events, hospitals, and nursing homes. I fvcked throughout the entire pandemic. Now I’m vaccinated. No need to be paranoid.
 

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My experience with the hospitals is that doctors and nurses do not care about you , that is why hospitals are places where you get ever sicker , because people there do not care about the people who are sick

I have another experience now , with the PEP . For some reason I can not get it in the farmacy , and from the hospitals you can get it only from the section with STDs that can only schedule an appointment in a couple of weeks , even though they agree that it would be a good thing to start it

the doctor in the emergency room even was smiling when I told him that this is the 3rd day and if I can not get it now makes no sense to start in 2 weeks from now when I will have an appointment

well , I hope that god has other plans with me , than to **** up my life entirely , because clearly I will not get the pep in time :)
 

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I had Mononucleosis a couple years ago. Kiss disease.

Was bedridden with one of my highest fevers ever for about 6 weeks, and warned to take it easy for months afterwards. Shît wasn't entertaining. Medicines and treatments I can barely remember them all. Would sweat out the entire bed every few hours. Slept on towels.

And I fvcked her with a condom. Was I supposed to wear one on my tongue too?!
 

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My experience with the hospitals is that doctors and nurses do not care about you , that is why hospitals are places where you get ever sicker , because people there do not care about the people who are sick

I have another experience now , with the PEP . For some reason I can not get it in the farmacy , and from the hospitals you can get it only from the section with STDs that can only schedule an appointment in a couple of weeks , even though they agree that it would be a good thing to start it

the doctor in the emergency room even was smiling when I told him that this is the 3rd day and if I can not get it now makes no sense to start in 2 weeks from now when I will have an appointment

well , I hope that god has other plans with me , than to **** up my life entirely , because clearly I will not get the pep in time :)
We've been overworked and some people have just become numb. It's not right, but it's not you, it's the shear amount of people who are coming to urgent care, doc. offices and ERs.

I had Mononucleosis a couple years ago. Kiss disease.

Was bedridden with one of my highest fevers ever for about 6 weeks, and warned to take it easy for months afterwards. Shît wasn't entertaining. Medicines and treatments I can barely remember them all. Would sweat out the entire bed every few hours. Slept on towels.

And I fvcked her with a condom. Was I supposed to wear one on my tongue too?!
Usually just Valtrex since it's Epstein Barr (HSV/Herpesviridae family).

Actually, yes, it's called dental dam is a condom for your mouth when you go down and much on a dozen plus time used pus.
 
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