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Got a nasty thing on my little boy from a bj

the funny thing is that she looked like a normal girl , not in a million years I would have thought that I would get something from her from an unprotected bj

kings remember , protection first

now I am incapacitated for at least 2 weeks ...
 

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Got a nasty thing on my little boy from a bj

the funny thing is that she looked like a normal girl , not in a million years I would have thought that I would get something from her from an unprotected bj

kings remember , protection first

now I am incapacitated for at least 2 weeks ...
Sorry this happened to you, but I’m not wearing a condom during a BJ.

Where did you find this chick?
 

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Sorry this happened to you, but I’m not wearing a condom during a BJ.

Where did you find this chick?
just went outside to drink with my friends , I got drunk . Just a random chick from the bar

I did not use condom for bjs either , but from now on I will , it is not worth it the consequences

now I am staying in the ER with children , waiting my turn to the doctor , as I could not find an appointment with a dermatologist

what an afternoon
 

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Condom on bj, is that even a thing? I've had countless bjs in my life and I never had /catch anything.

Oh and on the looks side, you can never judge a girl by her look. I've meet girls who looked so innocent but who were the biggest wh0res you could meet.
 

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Updste with a diagnosis, when you can and if you don't mind. Hsv1, maybe? It could also just be an abrasion from her teeth or nails that picked up a bacterial infection. Neither of these are a big deal at all, as far as your overall health.
 

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I got drunk . Just a random chick from the bar
This is a big reason why I don’t get drunk and run night game at a club or bar trying to get same day lays.

Getting drunk compromises my standards and negatively impacts my risk tolerance (captain obvious lol), whereas I’m pretty picky when sober and generally tend to avoid low hanging fruit.

I’m fortunate that I’ve never caught anything considering some of my past behaviour.

These days I’m not about getting a lay ASAP... as long as things are smoothly escalating in a natural way I’m good. I also like getting to know someone a bit better too before bedding them — I’ve found sh!t personalities turn me off and I’m not as into the sex irregardless of looks.

Others may feel differently, but unless I was drunk or high and wasn’t thinking straight, I always found it kind of gross to make out with a complete stranger I just met... because I have no clue where her mouth has been or just was, and if she has anything.
 

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I honestly have to know a girl well before dealing with oral. I consider it more intimate than a bang (with a condom that is). I too avoid SNLs unless it's a great opportunity for both of us.

OP, as @Bible_Belt said, could be a tooth scratch. Happened to me, couldn't jerk it for a week or two, lol.
 

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Updste with a diagnosis, when you can and if you don't mind. Hsv1, maybe? It could also just be an abrasion from her teeth or nails that picked up a bacterial infection. Neither of these are a big deal at all, as far as your overall health.
I am at the ER now , waiting to see what the doctor says . Took a piss sample

will go tomorrow morning to the STD section to run all the tests , and will keep you updated
 

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I honestly have to know a girl well before dealing with oral. I consider it more intimate than a bang (with a condom that is). I too avoid SNLs unless it's a great opportunity for both of us.

OP, as @Bible_Belt said, could be a tooth scratch. Happened to me, couldn't jerk it for a week or two, lol.
hopefully it is like that , but also the piss has a very strange colour and hurts when I take a lick ...


hopefully it is nothing
 

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hopefully it is like that , but also the piss has a very strange colour and hurts when I take a lick ...


hopefully it is nothing
You probably have a chlamydia, you can get it easily from a bj. Yes you should wear a condom during oral, a chlamydia is nothing, but you can get herpes type 2, if the girl has HSV-1 (oral herpes) and has or had a cold sore on her lips and gives you a bj, you will get HSV-2 on your kok. And you will have it forever, it's gonna be a nightmare, You can say goodbye to a normal sekc life.
Not worth the risk in my opinion, I would only a have a bj without condom from my gf or a girl I know well who hasnt oral herpes.
85% of the population has oral herpes (HSV-1), but doesn't always manifest.

Be careful man, you never know
 

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Condom on bj, is that even a thing? I've had countless bjs in my life and I never had /catch anything.

Oh and on the looks side, you can never judge a girl by her look. I've meet girls who looked so innocent but who were the biggest wh0res you could meet.
Yeah I never have either and would just get it checked out...
 

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It's not even worth getting a BJ if you have a condom on. Honestly BJs are overrated anyway, even the best head is only enjoyable for about 5min then it gets old.
 

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It's not even worth getting a BJ if you have a condom on. Honestly BJs are overrated anyway, even the best head is only enjoyable for about 5min then it gets old.
I agree with the first part. Count me out if I have to wear a condom to get a BJ.

However, to say they are overrated is false. Some women give them far better than others. If you haven't gotten one from one who does I can see why you may think this.
 

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It's not even worth getting a BJ if you have a condom on. Honestly BJs are overrated anyway, even the best head is only enjoyable for about 5min then it gets old.
I agree with the first part. Count me out if I have to wear a condom to get a BJ.

However, to say they are overrated is false. Some women give them far better than others. If you haven't gotten one from one who does I can see why you may think this.
Really good head is arguably better than sex.

Really bad or boring head is not even worth getting head. D!ck usually goes limp.

In my experience, only about 10% of women are good at giving head, 50% are either so bad or boring about it that it's not even worth getting a BJ from them, and the remaining 40% fall somewhere in between.
 

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Really good head is arguably better than sex.

Really bad or boring head is not even worth getting head. D!ck usually goes limp.

In my experience, only about 10% of women are good at giving head, 50% are either so bad or boring about it that it's not even worth getting a BJ from them, and the remaining 40% fall somewhere in between.
Agreed. When you get a great BJ it rivals or is even better than sex. 2 weeks ago was interesting because I actually got one of the worst I had ever had one night and then one of the best I had ever had the next night (2 different chicks obviously). And the first one was so bad I would rather have just rubbed one off on my own. Second one was arguably better than most sex I have.

And it comes down to technique. First chick that did a terrible job was actually hotter than the second chick who gave a great one. So there you have it.
 

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Got a nasty thing on my little boy from a bj

the funny thing is that she looked like a normal girl , not in a million years I would have thought that I would get something from her from an unprotected bj

kings remember , protection first

now I am incapacitated for at least 2 weeks ...
5 years ago I pulled a dime that belongs to my Top 3 of all time. This woman was beautiful in all departments, absolutely flawless. I fvcked her with a condom for about a month and we were getting on like a house on fire. Things were going so well that I decided we should go for sexual health checks so that we could ditch the condoms. Thats when suddenly she started to drag her feet subtly. Every time I raised the sexual health check she would skilfully evade. One day she texted me and said she needed to tell me something. Got to her house and she sat me down and dropped a bombshell. She disclosed that she had been HIV positive for over 7years but the virus was well managed and under control and not transmittable to someone. Man my head nearly exploded as a million thoughts swirled in my mind. I was so glad I had been using condoms and hadnt just plunged in commando. Her evasiveness about the tests made immediate sense in that moment.

Guys use condoms at all times until a woman has been checked over and certified clean. The woman who will zap you is going to be that HB9.5 and not some crackhead without teeth.
 

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So update , it is an std as the urine sample said that it is not an urinary infection

got my first antibiotic shot in the ass , and have to go tomorrow at a specialist to do all the tests and continue the treatment

what a time to be alive !
 
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