"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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First meet/date at a club???

aquilonBE

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First off respect to those on this site who have helped me shed my AFC ways! It's my first post so go easy guys ;)

On to the matter at hand...Been facebook msging with a solid HB8 and now she's asking to join me on my night out with mates at a club (perhaps I divulged too much regarding my social life). She's going for drinks in town with her girls and out of the blue she's asking for my number so she can maybe 'come along for a dance'.

Now I'm not worried/nervous or anything about doing this I'm just thinking it's a bad idea for a first meet. So any guidance welcome, a) let her know I'm not gonna be at the club for whatever reason so re-schedule. b) wait for the text that night that she wants to join me and play it cool and hopefully bang. or c) something else?

And it being in a club, good ways to keep her focused on the prize! I'm aware of the amount of distractions!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Purefilth

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"Maybe next time - I am free Sunday though, if you want to go bowling"
Or a or b
Basically, do whatever.

If you aren't comfortable with that as a first meet (I'm not keen on her meeting my friends straight away) then offer another.
If she's with her girls, then hook them with your buddies and be hailed as the ladykiller almighty. :D
 

aquilonBE

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Thanks Pure good advice.

She's the best of the bunch (having seen pics of her mates) so don't really want to bank on that but you're right. The frame is still mine so just need to judge the situation correctly.
 

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Don't be afraid to fail. Failure, not success, is what makes a Don Juan.
Go have fun. :D
 
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