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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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First meet/date at a club???

aquilonBE

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First off respect to those on this site who have helped me shed my AFC ways! It's my first post so go easy guys ;)

On to the matter at hand...Been facebook msging with a solid HB8 and now she's asking to join me on my night out with mates at a club (perhaps I divulged too much regarding my social life). She's going for drinks in town with her girls and out of the blue she's asking for my number so she can maybe 'come along for a dance'.

Now I'm not worried/nervous or anything about doing this I'm just thinking it's a bad idea for a first meet. So any guidance welcome, a) let her know I'm not gonna be at the club for whatever reason so re-schedule. b) wait for the text that night that she wants to join me and play it cool and hopefully bang. or c) something else?

And it being in a club, good ways to keep her focused on the prize! I'm aware of the amount of distractions!
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"Maybe next time - I am free Sunday though, if you want to go bowling"
Or a or b
Basically, do whatever.

If you aren't comfortable with that as a first meet (I'm not keen on her meeting my friends straight away) then offer another.
If she's with her girls, then hook them with your buddies and be hailed as the ladykiller almighty. :D
 

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Thanks Pure good advice.

She's the best of the bunch (having seen pics of her mates) so don't really want to bank on that but you're right. The frame is still mine so just need to judge the situation correctly.
 

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Don't be afraid to fail. Failure, not success, is what makes a Don Juan.
Go have fun. :D
 
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