"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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First meet/date at a club???

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First off respect to those on this site who have helped me shed my AFC ways! It's my first post so go easy guys ;)

On to the matter at hand...Been facebook msging with a solid HB8 and now she's asking to join me on my night out with mates at a club (perhaps I divulged too much regarding my social life). She's going for drinks in town with her girls and out of the blue she's asking for my number so she can maybe 'come along for a dance'.

Now I'm not worried/nervous or anything about doing this I'm just thinking it's a bad idea for a first meet. So any guidance welcome, a) let her know I'm not gonna be at the club for whatever reason so re-schedule. b) wait for the text that night that she wants to join me and play it cool and hopefully bang. or c) something else?

And it being in a club, good ways to keep her focused on the prize! I'm aware of the amount of distractions!
 

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"Maybe next time - I am free Sunday though, if you want to go bowling"
Or a or b
Basically, do whatever.

If you aren't comfortable with that as a first meet (I'm not keen on her meeting my friends straight away) then offer another.
If she's with her girls, then hook them with your buddies and be hailed as the ladykiller almighty. :D
 
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Thanks Pure good advice.

She's the best of the bunch (having seen pics of her mates) so don't really want to bank on that but you're right. The frame is still mine so just need to judge the situation correctly.
 
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Don't be afraid to fail. Failure, not success, is what makes a Don Juan.
Go have fun. :D
 
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