"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First kiss, french or not?

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I ask because a girl I was recently dating, I made my move on our second date and she initially kept her mouth closed, kept it to a peck. Oddly enough she said that was nice just moments later. We are sleeping together so it's not about her so much as it made me wonder if a peck on the lips is not a better first kiss method?

-Not as much chance of rejection as it's quick.
-Leaves her wanting more.
-Shows sexual interest.

I'm thinking about keeping it to a peck on the lips for a few kisses in the future to see what the results are vs. just an all out french kiss right out of the gate. FWIW, I can't recall any other girl having an issue with a french kiss first kiss, but I wonder if this isn't a safer bet...from what I am readin on other forums, it seems like peck on the lips is the preferred first...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Espi said:
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If you're sleeping with her, then you should be able to kiss her however you want.
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I not only can't believe that you made that comment, but that "mrgoodstuff" also "liked" your comment. Did you miss the part in the title of the thread where I said "First kiss" and explained that this was about first kisses with a woman in the body of the thread???????????

Where is orein? I'm sure he will tell me I'm a troll because I have reading comprehension above middle school...
 
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Bro I think I've only gave one girl a peck on the lips ONCE as our first kiss and that's cause I was being a *****. When I go for the kiss now I grab their face lol like on the chin area (Not forcing them or anything like that). Some girls are awful kissers though.

Kissed some random girl at a bar last thursday. And she bearly opened her mouth. It was such a turn off. But I've had that happened before with other chicks and thats just how some girls kiss. I go for the french but not so much tongue action. But fvck yea I want the first kiss to be a passionate one. Wtf is a peck...?
 
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GearsGod310 said:
Bro I think I've only gave one girl a peck on the lips ONCE as our first kiss and that's cause I was being a *****. When I go for the kiss now I grab their face lol like on the chin area (Not forcing them or anything like that). Some girls are awful kissers though.

Kissed some random girl at a bar last thursday. And she bearly opened her mouth. It was such a turn off. But I've had that happened before with other chicks and thats just how some girls kiss. I go for the french but not so much tongue action. But fvck yea I want the first kiss to be a passionate one. Wtf is a peck...?
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This and be the 1st one to pull away
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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