XxprodigyxX
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where would you take a woman on a 1st date? dinner and a movie is too typical. so is miniature golf...any GOOD ideas?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
First dates
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- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Tboner
Don Juan
Don't spend any money on her.
Don't take her to a movie, concert, comedy club, bar or any event where you don't have her complete attention for long periods of time.
Restaurant, diner or coffee shop are good for first meetings. These are typical first date places: quiet, little distractions and easy to run your verbal game. I use these if I haven't met the woman yet or met her only briefly, like a #close. Cut these meetings short, less than one hour, to keep her chasing you.
If you've already gamed her some, do something out of the ordinary. Miniature golf, walk in the park, drive in the country, walk on the beach, swim in a lake, picnic, cooking a meal for her. Have a definite time limit, 3 hours and end the date on a high note.
The most important thing is you make the plans, you make the decisions and don't ask her what she wants to do. Women want to follow a strong, decisive man.
Don't take her to a movie, concert, comedy club, bar or any event where you don't have her complete attention for long periods of time.
Restaurant, diner or coffee shop are good for first meetings. These are typical first date places: quiet, little distractions and easy to run your verbal game. I use these if I haven't met the woman yet or met her only briefly, like a #close. Cut these meetings short, less than one hour, to keep her chasing you.
If you've already gamed her some, do something out of the ordinary. Miniature golf, walk in the park, drive in the country, walk on the beach, swim in a lake, picnic, cooking a meal for her. Have a definite time limit, 3 hours and end the date on a high note.
The most important thing is you make the plans, you make the decisions and don't ask her what she wants to do. Women want to follow a strong, decisive man.
animal crackers
Senior Don Juan
You should go and.....do a search.
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XxprodigyxX
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thanks fellas...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.