XxprodigyxX
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where would you take a woman on a 1st date? dinner and a movie is too typical. so is miniature golf...any GOOD ideas?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
First dates
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Tboner
Don Juan
Don't spend any money on her.
Don't take her to a movie, concert, comedy club, bar or any event where you don't have her complete attention for long periods of time.
Restaurant, diner or coffee shop are good for first meetings. These are typical first date places: quiet, little distractions and easy to run your verbal game. I use these if I haven't met the woman yet or met her only briefly, like a #close. Cut these meetings short, less than one hour, to keep her chasing you.
If you've already gamed her some, do something out of the ordinary. Miniature golf, walk in the park, drive in the country, walk on the beach, swim in a lake, picnic, cooking a meal for her. Have a definite time limit, 3 hours and end the date on a high note.
The most important thing is you make the plans, you make the decisions and don't ask her what she wants to do. Women want to follow a strong, decisive man.
Don't take her to a movie, concert, comedy club, bar or any event where you don't have her complete attention for long periods of time.
Restaurant, diner or coffee shop are good for first meetings. These are typical first date places: quiet, little distractions and easy to run your verbal game. I use these if I haven't met the woman yet or met her only briefly, like a #close. Cut these meetings short, less than one hour, to keep her chasing you.
If you've already gamed her some, do something out of the ordinary. Miniature golf, walk in the park, drive in the country, walk on the beach, swim in a lake, picnic, cooking a meal for her. Have a definite time limit, 3 hours and end the date on a high note.
The most important thing is you make the plans, you make the decisions and don't ask her what she wants to do. Women want to follow a strong, decisive man.
animal crackers
Senior Don Juan
You should go and.....do a search.
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XxprodigyxX
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thanks fellas...
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.