XxprodigyxX
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where would you take a woman on a 1st date? dinner and a movie is too typical. so is miniature golf...any GOOD ideas?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
First dates
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Tboner
Don Juan
Don't spend any money on her.
Don't take her to a movie, concert, comedy club, bar or any event where you don't have her complete attention for long periods of time.
Restaurant, diner or coffee shop are good for first meetings. These are typical first date places: quiet, little distractions and easy to run your verbal game. I use these if I haven't met the woman yet or met her only briefly, like a #close. Cut these meetings short, less than one hour, to keep her chasing you.
If you've already gamed her some, do something out of the ordinary. Miniature golf, walk in the park, drive in the country, walk on the beach, swim in a lake, picnic, cooking a meal for her. Have a definite time limit, 3 hours and end the date on a high note.
The most important thing is you make the plans, you make the decisions and don't ask her what she wants to do. Women want to follow a strong, decisive man.
Don't take her to a movie, concert, comedy club, bar or any event where you don't have her complete attention for long periods of time.
Restaurant, diner or coffee shop are good for first meetings. These are typical first date places: quiet, little distractions and easy to run your verbal game. I use these if I haven't met the woman yet or met her only briefly, like a #close. Cut these meetings short, less than one hour, to keep her chasing you.
If you've already gamed her some, do something out of the ordinary. Miniature golf, walk in the park, drive in the country, walk on the beach, swim in a lake, picnic, cooking a meal for her. Have a definite time limit, 3 hours and end the date on a high note.
The most important thing is you make the plans, you make the decisions and don't ask her what she wants to do. Women want to follow a strong, decisive man.
animal crackers
Senior Don Juan
You should go and.....do a search.
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XxprodigyxX
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thanks fellas...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.