XxprodigyxX
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where would you take a woman on a 1st date? dinner and a movie is too typical. so is miniature golf...any GOOD ideas?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
First dates
- Thread starter XxprodigyxX
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Tboner
Don Juan
Don't spend any money on her.
Don't take her to a movie, concert, comedy club, bar or any event where you don't have her complete attention for long periods of time.
Restaurant, diner or coffee shop are good for first meetings. These are typical first date places: quiet, little distractions and easy to run your verbal game. I use these if I haven't met the woman yet or met her only briefly, like a #close. Cut these meetings short, less than one hour, to keep her chasing you.
If you've already gamed her some, do something out of the ordinary. Miniature golf, walk in the park, drive in the country, walk on the beach, swim in a lake, picnic, cooking a meal for her. Have a definite time limit, 3 hours and end the date on a high note.
The most important thing is you make the plans, you make the decisions and don't ask her what she wants to do. Women want to follow a strong, decisive man.
Don't take her to a movie, concert, comedy club, bar or any event where you don't have her complete attention for long periods of time.
Restaurant, diner or coffee shop are good for first meetings. These are typical first date places: quiet, little distractions and easy to run your verbal game. I use these if I haven't met the woman yet or met her only briefly, like a #close. Cut these meetings short, less than one hour, to keep her chasing you.
If you've already gamed her some, do something out of the ordinary. Miniature golf, walk in the park, drive in the country, walk on the beach, swim in a lake, picnic, cooking a meal for her. Have a definite time limit, 3 hours and end the date on a high note.
The most important thing is you make the plans, you make the decisions and don't ask her what she wants to do. Women want to follow a strong, decisive man.
animal crackers
Senior Don Juan
You should go and.....do a search.
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XxprodigyxX
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thanks fellas...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.