XxprodigyxX
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where would you take a woman on a 1st date? dinner and a movie is too typical. so is miniature golf...any GOOD ideas?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
First dates
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- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Tboner
Don Juan
Don't spend any money on her.
Don't take her to a movie, concert, comedy club, bar or any event where you don't have her complete attention for long periods of time.
Restaurant, diner or coffee shop are good for first meetings. These are typical first date places: quiet, little distractions and easy to run your verbal game. I use these if I haven't met the woman yet or met her only briefly, like a #close. Cut these meetings short, less than one hour, to keep her chasing you.
If you've already gamed her some, do something out of the ordinary. Miniature golf, walk in the park, drive in the country, walk on the beach, swim in a lake, picnic, cooking a meal for her. Have a definite time limit, 3 hours and end the date on a high note.
The most important thing is you make the plans, you make the decisions and don't ask her what she wants to do. Women want to follow a strong, decisive man.
Don't take her to a movie, concert, comedy club, bar or any event where you don't have her complete attention for long periods of time.
Restaurant, diner or coffee shop are good for first meetings. These are typical first date places: quiet, little distractions and easy to run your verbal game. I use these if I haven't met the woman yet or met her only briefly, like a #close. Cut these meetings short, less than one hour, to keep her chasing you.
If you've already gamed her some, do something out of the ordinary. Miniature golf, walk in the park, drive in the country, walk on the beach, swim in a lake, picnic, cooking a meal for her. Have a definite time limit, 3 hours and end the date on a high note.
The most important thing is you make the plans, you make the decisions and don't ask her what she wants to do. Women want to follow a strong, decisive man.
animal crackers
Senior Don Juan
You should go and.....do a search.
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XxprodigyxX
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thanks fellas...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.