"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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First Dates Are For Making Moves

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Just what the title says. I've been thinking lately about good and bad first dates I've had and where things have led to.

IF I treated a first date as a "get to know you" session, it usually grinds down to a halt, and if I get a second date, it usually sucks after that too.

If the first date becomes flirty and sexy and fun, good things lead from that. If not that night, then more likely to get the second date, lay, etc.


I resolve to always make a move on a first date.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well, it's actually your duty to keep her interest level high on the first date.

You're leaving a lot on the table if you don't switch your habit up.

Hint: Try Sync Dating. It'll definitely change the dynamics of your first date, guaranteed.
 
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Allurre said:
Well, it's actually your duty to keep her interest level high on the first date.

You're leaving a lot on the table if you don't switch your habit up.

Hint: Try Sync Dating. It'll definitely change the dynamics of your first date, guaranteed.
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My Duty is to entertain women?
Really? Prize mentality would say otherwise, and at least I like to think we're there for our mutual enjoyment.

My point is simple. To the guys that are thinking "lets get to know her first, then I'll start in on her later" well its not working, not going to work. Not if my experience is anything. There will be plenty of time to chit chat during post-coital cuddling.
 
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I gotta say, i agree with scrouds' opinion on this matter.

From my experience things turn out better if the first date is more fun and less interrogation flavoured.

Plus I wouldnt recommend thinking its your duty to entertain her... you're not a magician, you're a goddam MAN. You aint no lacky for some GIRL.

Anyway yeah go with fun, sexy and badass for the first date... and a few after that! ;)
 
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Allurre said:
Hint: Try Sync Dating. It'll definitely change the dynamics of your first date, guaranteed.
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Hint: Stop trying to peddle your wares. People come here looking for guidance, not to purchase a product.

Go set up a booth at your local mall and sell your sh*t there.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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scrouds makes a good point, i've bombed many a girl's interest level even after i got the first date, don't make this crucial mistake
 
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