First date was a success, now what do I do

[JPlaya]

Notes: The chick is a virgin and doesn't really trust guys. She asked how many partners have I had and I gave her a bs response such as do animals count lol. She then said she thinks I've had 8 partners lol. I took her to a date party and we drank and went to a club. She danced with me the whole time and even stayed with me when her friends left. I used a lot of kino while dancing with her, so that's great. We went to eat afterwards and she told me how she really doesn't trust guys <_<. I didn't want to kiss her or anything cause of her reaction, but we held hands walking back to her place. She said she had a wonderful time and we parted, so what I do next. I'm a straight up noobie.

 

[Upside]

Kiss her. Do it now. For the love of god this will open so many doors with you.

PS Beware the "doesn't trust guys" thing. First of all, if you have sex with her, she WILL want exclusivity with you considering....she's a virgin who doesn't trust guys.

Second, you may or may not run into the problem where she will have to tag along or get updates on where you are like if you are going to a party or whatever just to make sure you don't do anything silly.

But whatever this is moot point since you aren't there yet.

Kiss her. Now.

 

[JPlaya]

What about the no trust guys thing

 

[bigneil]

At least go for the cheek kiss. I don't understand why this is so hard, but I've had 20 years practice. If she likes you she will like your kissing her cheek. That leads to the lip kiss. Never rush the French kiss, possibly the most intimate of all acts.

Kiss her when you first see her and when you last see her.

 

[SoSuave666]

I don't think there is a single girl out there that trusts men. I don't know if it's just me, but any girl who I regularly hang around with has male trust issues. Whether or not they actually have trust issues is another story. I think it's just something they say to make us want them to trust us...if that makes sense. They are kind of playing the victim and making us out to be the savior. Beware of all that. Even a virgin will fvck you if she wants to, it may just take a couple more dates than normal (also beware of a girl above the age of 21 saying she is a virgin).

 

[JPlaya]

I'm just scared because I've never kissed a girl before and she's a really friendly person I can't really tell if there is attraction. I guess I'll do it next time I see her and how should I do it?

 

[Eternal_water]

At least go for the cheek kiss. I don't understand why this is so hard, but I've had 20 years practice. If she likes you she will like your kissing her cheek. That leads to the lip kiss. Never rush the French kiss, possibly the most intimate of all acts.

Kiss her when you first see her and when you last see her.

err, are you saying go from a cheek kiss to a proper kiss in the same few seconds or a cheek kiss alone, and a proper one at a later date?

 

[5string]

Mount her! WTF are you waiting for?

 

[Iceberg]

I'm just scared because I've never kissed a girl before and she's a really friendly person I can't really tell if there is attraction. I guess I'll do it next time I see her and how should I do it?

You should read the 2,000 other posts that have already answered this question.

 

[JPlaya]

You should read the 2,000 other posts that have already answered this question.

You would reply with some smartass comment

 

[Krueg]

A virgin? I didn't know they still made those.

If the feeling is right and you think things are going well, go for it. Theres been times where I went in for a kiss and the girl moved out of the way completely rejecting my advanced... Oh well You now know where her interest level is.