“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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First Date Question

Andre2807

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I've just been on quite a good first date, just a simple coffee date and a walk-about in the mall. The date went great and immediately off the bat we were chatting, flirting, joking around. The questions game was also quite fun, and she was very receptive with sexual topics like running a naked mile, skinny dipping and so on. During the date she did touch me several times and she had no problems with me touching her back.

After our drinks were finished, I paid the bill, made quick connections with the waiter and proceeded on our slow walk-about through the mall, arm in arm. Slowly walking her back to my car.

Finished of with a decent kiss . All in all, it was a great date and I left her on an high note. My only concern though is that the date was only an hour long.

I'm not sure if I should have tried bouncing her back to mine for a DVD or if I acted correctly by finishing the date on an high note.
 

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You handled it perfectly. Whatever IL she had at the time you two departed, she is going to have even more next time she sees you.
 

Andre2807

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Thanks guys.

Logicallefty, what does IL stand for?
 

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IL = interest level.
Whenever you run into some weird acronyms on this board, google them and add "slang" to your search phrase (eg "IL slang meaning"). You'll soon be fluent.
 

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I can never help myself and end up making the dates last too long when theyre going well.

Must learn to leave them wanting more!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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