Ok I've got a date in a few hours with a girl I met online. We are planning to go have a few drinks and talk. This was her idea. The thing is she is only 20 so bars are out of the question. I guess we could just go grab some drinks and go park somewhere. We have a few parks that people go to but I don't want to worry about her getting caught since she is underage. What are your guys thoughts? Btw I live in a small town so not much to do.
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Why not have her come over to the crib, drink there, then head out? I normally try to drink indoors.
Mr.SomeoneElse
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"Come over for a movie and a back massage"
Same line got me laid last night. Truth
She'll be happy
then you can even say "You'll get one too if you're lucky"
Same line got me laid last night. Truth
She'll be happy
then you can even say "You'll get one too if you're lucky"
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Mr.SomeoneElse said:
this . all day. everyday. will get you laid lol.
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bigneil said:
or do something that involves action, dinner on the first date?! what are you crazy ?!
Mr.SomeoneElse
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Maybe for your age groupbigneil said:
But I dont know man, its been working out so well for me.
I cant remember the last time ive gone on dates.
The times that ive taken a woman out, have been days that ive just wanted company.
I'm going to do a write up on what I do and we can see what you guys think of it.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
a first date should be a natural part of what you do everyday. If you are the type that goes to listen to live concerts a lot that should be a first date. if you are the type that likes to go to comedy shows that should be your first date
if you don't have a good first date idea, it's a very good sign you are a loser if you can't figure out something to do outside of take a chick to a restaurant.
**** go bowling go roller skating, go shoot pool, do something. do what you normally do just bring her.
if you don't have a good first date idea, it's a very good sign you are a loser if you can't figure out something to do outside of take a chick to a restaurant.
**** go bowling go roller skating, go shoot pool, do something. do what you normally do just bring her.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
take her to the nearest flee market. lol