Ok I've got a date in a few hours with a girl I met online. We are planning to go have a few drinks and talk. This was her idea. The thing is she is only 20 so bars are out of the question. I guess we could just go grab some drinks and go park somewhere. We have a few parks that people go to but I don't want to worry about her getting caught since she is underage. What are your guys thoughts? Btw I live in a small town so not much to do.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
First date problem (hurry)
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Fly By Night
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Why not have her come over to the crib, drink there, then head out? I normally try to drink indoors.
Mr.SomeoneElse
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"Come over for a movie and a back massage"
Same line got me laid last night. Truth
She'll be happy
then you can even say "You'll get one too if you're lucky"
Same line got me laid last night. Truth
She'll be happy
then you can even say "You'll get one too if you're lucky"
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Mr.SomeoneElse said:
this . all day. everyday. will get you laid lol.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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bigneil said:
or do something that involves action, dinner on the first date?! what are you crazy ?!
Mr.SomeoneElse
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Maybe for your age groupbigneil said:
But I dont know man, its been working out so well for me.
I cant remember the last time ive gone on dates.
The times that ive taken a woman out, have been days that ive just wanted company.
I'm going to do a write up on what I do and we can see what you guys think of it.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
a first date should be a natural part of what you do everyday. If you are the type that goes to listen to live concerts a lot that should be a first date. if you are the type that likes to go to comedy shows that should be your first date
if you don't have a good first date idea, it's a very good sign you are a loser if you can't figure out something to do outside of take a chick to a restaurant.
**** go bowling go roller skating, go shoot pool, do something. do what you normally do just bring her.
if you don't have a good first date idea, it's a very good sign you are a loser if you can't figure out something to do outside of take a chick to a restaurant.
**** go bowling go roller skating, go shoot pool, do something. do what you normally do just bring her.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
take her to the nearest flee market. lol