see, I disagree here. the quality of not wanting to have sex with me all that much isn't something I want to screen for or reward.A woman that holds out though, earns a few brownie points in my eyes. It's just really uncommon to come across.
I didn't say I reward. Just makes me think a little that she might be a worthy hunt and the fangs come out. I like a challenge.see, I disagree here. the quality of not wanting to have sex with me all that much isn't something I want to screen for or reward.
I'm from a somewhat small place, so it's not too hard to find somebody, that knows somebody that, knows something about a woman I might have an interest in. I don't really care that much either way.I feel like if a girl holds out on you there's a 1/10 chance that it's because she's truly not that kind of girl,
Not the one X5.and a 9/10 chance that it's because she's gold digging, keeping you as a backup, just bored and looking for free meals, trying to manipulate you with sex, trying to unload her baggage about how all her exes just used her for sex onto you, turning over a new leaf where the first 20 guys she bang
More so a novelty, than anything. Picking up women for sex these days is alot like those guaranteed bag hunting reserves. A challenge just gives me an opportunity to sharpen my teeth. I don't particularly care what her rationality is behind wanting to hold out, although I can respect it. If she wants to use her pvssy to get a free meal or a wedding ring, I can't hate. I'm just not the one. Guys mack to come up everyday.if I'm turning down the opportunity to have sex with a girl, i don't like her very much, why would it work any differently for women?
It's the Jews.What is with this idiotic troll threads popping up like mushrooms lately?
Such a double standard. Weak minded individuals putting someone else down to make themselves feel superior, when 9/10 they're out there doing the same chit.I do sympathize with women in the perplexing paradigm that if they have sex too soon with a guy she could be sl*t shamed.
But if not soon enough labeled a prude.
How do they win in that battle?
they pick the one they'd prefer to be and find guys who like those. there are guys out there who date strippers and porn stars so it's not like every dude in the world hates slvts, and there are guys out there who wait until their wedding night to take their bride's virginity (and there are guys who wait until their wedding night to have sex with a girl who isn't even a virgin but refuses to put out til she's married again)I do sympathize with women in the perplexing paradigm that if they have sex too soon with a guy she could be sl*t shamed.
But if not soon enough labeled a prude.
How do they win in that battle?
Where do these labels come from though?.?. Other people! Are these ppl labeling you paying your bills, going to be by your side on your death bed, care about you, etc? I take into consideration the people close to me and myself. There are things that others do, that I don't agree with and I might even be outspoken about it, but in the end, it's not really my business in the first place. Other than ppl who gain by deception. Ppl shouldn't be so naive either. If I'm doing something that genuinely makes me happy, I could give 2 chits about a label put on me. Ppl are going to talk regardless.they pick the one they'd prefer to be and find guys who like those. there are guys out there who date strippers and porn stars so it's not like every dude in the world hates slvts, and there are guys out there who wait until their wedding night to take their bride's virginity (and there are guys who wait until their wedding night to have sex with a girl who isn't even a virgin but refuses to put out til she's married again)
alternatively they simply find the middle ground between being a sex hating prude and a no self control slvt
...so what? unless you only date 15 year olds she's going to have a history of doing stuff before you. as long as she doesn't then proceed to make you wait til date 5 when those other guys ****ed her in the club bathroom an hour after meeting her, then it's perfectly fine.Imagine this scenario
Girl goes on a date.. Does not screen the guy.. She has sex on the first date, next day he ghosts her (He got what he wanted)
Girl goes on another date.. Does not screen the guy.. she has sex on the first date, he jizzes all over her face, few days later he dumps her (He got what he wanted)
Girl goes on another date.. Does not screen the guy.. Things get steamy, he fingers her in the cinema, jizzes all over her titties, next day he ghosts her (He got what he wanted)
Girl meets YOU 2 months later... SHE IS NOW YOUR GIRLFRIEND