jimwho
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I'd be more concerned about what she was doing 10-minutes BERFORE you got there
Sorry Max, but you had that coming, < no pun intended..
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
First date at her place
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Sorry Max, but you had that coming, < no pun intended..
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SargeMaximus
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Why? Women spin plates just like we do. I really don't care what she was doing as long as she's doing me.I'd be more concerned about what she was doing 10-minutes BERFORE you got there
Sorry Max, but you had that coming, < no pun intended..
jimwho
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So you don't mind if a woman is all gooped up and smoking a cigarette? That's what I meant and was pulling your leg..
SargeMaximus
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Well obviously if she’s covered in *** that’s too far
Jake_Gyllenhaal69
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lol
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Jake_Gyllenhaal69
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I would say go but I have had a bad experience going over to a girls house on the first meetup that almost landed me in jail. Even if you go in with good intentions, the energy/your dvck and change things for the worst.
You never know if this girl is a catfish or how unstable this girl is in person?
You never know if this girl is a catfish or how unstable this girl is in person?
Jake_Gyllenhaal69
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going to a strangers house that will involve explicit has a good potential in turning sour though
SargeMaximus
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So many risk averse guys here. I’d wager that’s half your problem. Women love risk takers
UPDATE: She was obviously dtf. But plot twist. The reason she couldn't come out for a date and decided to counter offer was because she had to put her kids to bed. Single mum with three kids. Three different fathers. On benefits provided by Her Majesty the Queen. Living the posh life. I mean she was cute and all but fvcking hell man!!!! Dating in the 21st century is madness!!!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Jake_Gyllenhaal69
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You risked your well being for a single mom with three kids with three different dads?
Jake_Gyllenhaal69
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The women I don't want do
Run you idiot. Get outta there!!
I was out of there a long time ago.
How was I to know?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
bat soup
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Haha thanks for letting us know how it turned out. I knew something was off. What an absolute train wreck of a woman. Hopefully you won't become daddy number 4.