"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First date at her place

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Yes I have. Had a girl that during the night snuck out of bed thinking I was asleep to let in another guy to give him a bj. That **** was fvcked up
I'd be more concerned about what she was doing 10-minutes BERFORE you got thereo_O
Sorry Max, but you had that coming, < no pun intended..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why? Women spin plates just like we do. I really don't care what she was doing as long as she's doing me.
So you don't mind if a woman is all gooped up and smoking a cigarette? That's what I meant and was pulling your leg..
 
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“Frame” has nothing to do with this. You guys leave so much ass on the table misinterpreting frame than anything else. When a woman counteroffers you take it. Get in front of her face. The bigger question here is safety, not “frame.”
lol
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I would say go but I have had a bad experience going over to a girls house on the first meetup that almost landed me in jail. Even if you go in with good intentions, the energy/your dvck and change things for the worst.

You never know if this girl is a catfish or how unstable this girl is in person?
 
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Oh. My. God.

This girl wants to have sex with you.

I can’t believe some of you guys are turning this into a ‘well, she’s controlling the frame and that’s not good’ argument.

OP, go get laid.

This is beyond ridiculous.
going to a strangers house that will involve explicit has a good potential in turning sour though
 

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Agree with most of the comments.Proceed,but with caution
 

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So many risk averse guys here. I’d wager that’s half your problem. Women love risk takers
 

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UPDATE: She was obviously dtf. But plot twist. The reason she couldn't come out for a date and decided to counter offer was because she had to put her kids to bed. Single mum with three kids. Three different fathers. On benefits provided by Her Majesty the Queen. Living the posh life. I mean she was cute and all but fvcking hell man!!!! Dating in the 21st century is madness!!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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UPDATE: She was obviously dtf. But plot twist. The reason she couldn't come out for a date and decided to counter offer was because she had to put her kids to bed. Single mum with three kids. Three different fathers. On benefits provided by Her Majesty the Queen. Living the posh life. I mean she was cute and all but fvcking hell man!!!! Dating in the 21st century is madness!!!
You risked your well being for a single mom with three kids with three different dads?
 

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UPDATE: She was obviously dtf. But plot twist. The reason she couldn't come out for a date and decided to counter offer was because she had to put her kids to bed. Single mum with three kids. Three different fathers. On benefits provided by Her Majesty the Queen. Living the posh life. I mean she was cute and all but fvcking hell man!!!! Dating in the 21st century is madness!!!
Run you idiot. Get outta there!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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UPDATE: She was obviously dtf. But plot twist. The reason she couldn't come out for a date and decided to counter offer was because she had to put her kids to bed. Single mum with three kids. Three different fathers. On benefits provided by Her Majesty the Queen. Living the posh life. I mean she was cute and all but fvcking hell man!!!! Dating in the 21st century is madness!!!
Haha thanks for letting us know how it turned out. I knew something was off. What an absolute train wreck of a woman. Hopefully you won't become daddy number 4.
 
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