"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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First apporaches

we all eat food

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With some encouragment from some co workers, i made two approaches at work.

I work at Hollister, so girls come in all day, so my first attempt was this girl who was looking at bathing suits and i went up to her and this is how it went
HB8
Me: Hey Do You Need Any Help?
Her: (*****y Voice) NO
Me:...ok

didnt go so well lol, so i tried again with this Hb 7

Me: Hey Do You Need Any Help?
Her: No, im ok
Me: Oh ok, my names we all eat food btw
Her: oh hey im Melanie

and then i walked away and then she passed me again gave me real good eye contact and smiled at me.


So how do u think that went for my first attempt
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Obsidian

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doing your job does not equal approaching. "Do you need any help?" <-- wtf?

And for the record, the majority of people find it annoying when employees bother them while they're shopping.
 

Obsidian

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you've been on this forum for a year and a half and you still don't know what an approach is? are you a complete numbskull?

Be FLIRTACIOUS. Don't just go to work and ask a bunch of customers a stupid question and call that an approach.

Get your act together. Repent of your chumpish ways and read the DJ Bible. You're obviously clueless.
 

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Nah stay positive man. Doing great. It's kinda in your job description to approach like that at work though. Come up w/ something funny. Like when you notice she's looking at something go over next to her to act like your folding clothes then look over. Say something about what she's looking at. If you can make it funny do so. Like "What would mother say if she saw you wearing that?!" then shake your head in disapproval.... a second later-smile. Then be like........."with that said, I think that would look great on you or you'd look good in that." Have to have the right timing and tone though. Start up a little conversation laying on the C+F, get the number, then tell her you have to tend to other customers and she is "selfishly holding you back from doing your job." Good luck

TMTC
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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