"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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First apporaches

we all eat food

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With some encouragment from some co workers, i made two approaches at work.

I work at Hollister, so girls come in all day, so my first attempt was this girl who was looking at bathing suits and i went up to her and this is how it went
HB8
Me: Hey Do You Need Any Help?
Her: (*****y Voice) NO
Me:...ok

didnt go so well lol, so i tried again with this Hb 7

Me: Hey Do You Need Any Help?
Her: No, im ok
Me: Oh ok, my names we all eat food btw
Her: oh hey im Melanie

and then i walked away and then she passed me again gave me real good eye contact and smiled at me.


So how do u think that went for my first attempt
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Obsidian

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doing your job does not equal approaching. "Do you need any help?" <-- wtf?

And for the record, the majority of people find it annoying when employees bother them while they're shopping.
 

Obsidian

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you've been on this forum for a year and a half and you still don't know what an approach is? are you a complete numbskull?

Be FLIRTACIOUS. Don't just go to work and ask a bunch of customers a stupid question and call that an approach.

Get your act together. Repent of your chumpish ways and read the DJ Bible. You're obviously clueless.
 

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Nah stay positive man. Doing great. It's kinda in your job description to approach like that at work though. Come up w/ something funny. Like when you notice she's looking at something go over next to her to act like your folding clothes then look over. Say something about what she's looking at. If you can make it funny do so. Like "What would mother say if she saw you wearing that?!" then shake your head in disapproval.... a second later-smile. Then be like........."with that said, I think that would look great on you or you'd look good in that." Have to have the right timing and tone though. Start up a little conversation laying on the C+F, get the number, then tell her you have to tend to other customers and she is "selfishly holding you back from doing your job." Good luck

TMTC
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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