You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
did anyone report it to a mod?Vis a Vis said:Yup, Mahon was banned for stealing other people's sosuave names. And now he's back and nobody seems to care.
I think it might have been reported but I'm not sure what was done. I think he gets people's passwords through private messages, so just don't respond to anything, he might be trying to trick people into giving away valuble info.penkitten said:did anyone report it to a mod?
penkitten said:then it needs to be reported to a mod.
if you know the new name he is using, report it.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
It was the other way around Jackass, get your facts straight!Vis a Vis said:Yup, Mahon was banned for stealing other people's sosuave names. And now he's back and nobody seems to care.
shoptillIdrop, or was it-die?stuka1939 said:It was the other way around Jackass, get your facts straight!
I am not an idiot Vis a Vis. You are the guy (I forgot your initial screen name from Oklahoma) that was butt buddies with Deus (now Vladimir) who stole Mahon's screen name and password through private messages. You got banned yourself and now are under your new screen name Vis a Vis.
ketostix said:shoptillIdrop, or was it-die?
take it from me, reporting it to a mod by pm will be a more effective tool, seem more reasonable and respectable in their eyes and give them a chance to figure out what to do with the situation while they have their secret meetings in that mod corner... rather than posting a thread here, that just makes other people upset and causes flame baiting to begin. i have most certainly been in the OP's shoes during my days here on the forum ... so take it from me when i tell you what was told to me years ago...Vis a Vis said:That's kinda what this thread is about, penkitten. -Didn't you notice?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
chime in new dude...KEYS said:testing
maybe you should be banned again!Ultimate Player said:im just wondering, is there ANYTHING i can do to make this place better? its pain in my eyes to see the bs advice given by fraudulent guys who have NO success with women........i pretty much call them out every single time i join, yes ive been banned many times, and yea i keep coming back every time, because i LOVE this place, i LOVE the advice here if u search for all the best tips, ive applied this advice in my own life, and my success has doubled.........it just seems like theres no way to get rid of these pests who have no game, yet this still post advice trying to "help" others come up
just weird
Stuka1939 = Mahon8345 or whatever it is. Different name, same chode.stuka1939 said:It was the other way around Jackass, get your facts straight!
I am not an idiot Vis a Vis. You are the guy (I forgot your initial screen name from Oklahoma) that was butt buddies with Deus (now Vladimir) who stole Mahon's screen name and password through private messages. You got banned yourself and now are under your new screen name Vis a Vis.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.