Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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did anyone report it to a mod?Vis a Vis said:
I think it might have been reported but I'm not sure what was done. I think he gets people's passwords through private messages, so just don't respond to anything, he might be trying to trick people into giving away valuble info.penkitten said:
penkitten
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if you know the new name he is using, report it.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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It was the other way around Jackass, get your facts straight!Vis a Vis said:
I am not an idiot Vis a Vis. You are the guy (I forgot your initial screen name from Oklahoma) that was butt buddies with Deus (now Vladimir) who stole Mahon's screen name and password through private messages. You got banned yourself and now are under your new screen name Vis a Vis.
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ketostix said:
It was shop until I die!! Bingo!! He is the new Vis a Vis!!
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penkitten
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take it from me, reporting it to a mod by pm will be a more effective tool, seem more reasonable and respectable in their eyes and give them a chance to figure out what to do with the situation while they have their secret meetings in that mod corner... rather than posting a thread here, that just makes other people upset and causes flame baiting to begin. i have most certainly been in the OP's shoes during my days here on the forum ... so take it from me when i tell you what was told to me years ago...Vis a Vis said:
"this thread doesn't seem to be going anywhere"
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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chime in new dude...KEYS said:
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just weird
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maybe you should be banned again!Ultimate Player said:
Ken785
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Stuka1939 = Mahon8345 or whatever it is. Different name, same chode.stuka1939 said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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