Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
did anyone report it to a mod?Vis a Vis said:Yup, Mahon was banned for stealing other people's sosuave names. And now he's back and nobody seems to care.
I think it might have been reported but I'm not sure what was done. I think he gets people's passwords through private messages, so just don't respond to anything, he might be trying to trick people into giving away valuble info.penkitten said:did anyone report it to a mod?
penkitten said:then it needs to be reported to a mod.
if you know the new name he is using, report it.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
It was the other way around Jackass, get your facts straight!Vis a Vis said:Yup, Mahon was banned for stealing other people's sosuave names. And now he's back and nobody seems to care.
shoptillIdrop, or was it-die?stuka1939 said:It was the other way around Jackass, get your facts straight!
I am not an idiot Vis a Vis. You are the guy (I forgot your initial screen name from Oklahoma) that was butt buddies with Deus (now Vladimir) who stole Mahon's screen name and password through private messages. You got banned yourself and now are under your new screen name Vis a Vis.
ketostix said:shoptillIdrop, or was it-die?
take it from me, reporting it to a mod by pm will be a more effective tool, seem more reasonable and respectable in their eyes and give them a chance to figure out what to do with the situation while they have their secret meetings in that mod corner... rather than posting a thread here, that just makes other people upset and causes flame baiting to begin. i have most certainly been in the OP's shoes during my days here on the forum ... so take it from me when i tell you what was told to me years ago...Vis a Vis said:That's kinda what this thread is about, penkitten. -Didn't you notice?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
chime in new dude...KEYS said:testing
maybe you should be banned again!Ultimate Player said:im just wondering, is there ANYTHING i can do to make this place better? its pain in my eyes to see the bs advice given by fraudulent guys who have NO success with women........i pretty much call them out every single time i join, yes ive been banned many times, and yea i keep coming back every time, because i LOVE this place, i LOVE the advice here if u search for all the best tips, ive applied this advice in my own life, and my success has doubled.........it just seems like theres no way to get rid of these pests who have no game, yet this still post advice trying to "help" others come up
just weird
Stuka1939 = Mahon8345 or whatever it is. Different name, same chode.stuka1939 said:It was the other way around Jackass, get your facts straight!
I am not an idiot Vis a Vis. You are the guy (I forgot your initial screen name from Oklahoma) that was butt buddies with Deus (now Vladimir) who stole Mahon's screen name and password through private messages. You got banned yourself and now are under your new screen name Vis a Vis.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.