Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
did anyone report it to a mod?Vis a Vis said:Yup, Mahon was banned for stealing other people's sosuave names. And now he's back and nobody seems to care.
I think it might have been reported but I'm not sure what was done. I think he gets people's passwords through private messages, so just don't respond to anything, he might be trying to trick people into giving away valuble info.penkitten said:did anyone report it to a mod?
penkitten said:then it needs to be reported to a mod.
if you know the new name he is using, report it.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
It was the other way around Jackass, get your facts straight!Vis a Vis said:Yup, Mahon was banned for stealing other people's sosuave names. And now he's back and nobody seems to care.
shoptillIdrop, or was it-die?stuka1939 said:It was the other way around Jackass, get your facts straight!
I am not an idiot Vis a Vis. You are the guy (I forgot your initial screen name from Oklahoma) that was butt buddies with Deus (now Vladimir) who stole Mahon's screen name and password through private messages. You got banned yourself and now are under your new screen name Vis a Vis.
ketostix said:shoptillIdrop, or was it-die?
take it from me, reporting it to a mod by pm will be a more effective tool, seem more reasonable and respectable in their eyes and give them a chance to figure out what to do with the situation while they have their secret meetings in that mod corner... rather than posting a thread here, that just makes other people upset and causes flame baiting to begin. i have most certainly been in the OP's shoes during my days here on the forum ... so take it from me when i tell you what was told to me years ago...Vis a Vis said:That's kinda what this thread is about, penkitten. -Didn't you notice?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
chime in new dude...KEYS said:testing
maybe you should be banned again!Ultimate Player said:im just wondering, is there ANYTHING i can do to make this place better? its pain in my eyes to see the bs advice given by fraudulent guys who have NO success with women........i pretty much call them out every single time i join, yes ive been banned many times, and yea i keep coming back every time, because i LOVE this place, i LOVE the advice here if u search for all the best tips, ive applied this advice in my own life, and my success has doubled.........it just seems like theres no way to get rid of these pests who have no game, yet this still post advice trying to "help" others come up
just weird
Stuka1939 = Mahon8345 or whatever it is. Different name, same chode.stuka1939 said:It was the other way around Jackass, get your facts straight!
I am not an idiot Vis a Vis. You are the guy (I forgot your initial screen name from Oklahoma) that was butt buddies with Deus (now Vladimir) who stole Mahon's screen name and password through private messages. You got banned yourself and now are under your new screen name Vis a Vis.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.