"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Finish this sentence: "One day you and I should..."
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
WTF where did you learn that stupid tip from?Im guessing here because some big shots think ignoring is what the alpha male does...
"One day you and I should...plan out what you and I should do on another day"
"One day you and I should make sexy time!Great Success!" < goofy approach.
Or just scrap the text and call her and ask whats up
- go have you model skimpy clothes for me.
- test if sex really does have a side effect called pregnancy
dont ignore it, the chic is obviously seeing if you are creative enough for her, and shes hinting....
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Well I ended up ignoring it because I couldn't think of anything to reply with (I wasn't in the same mindset as you guys, but I'm starting to get it) and she sent it to me like half an hour after we got off the phone, so calling her wouldn't really be an option. Thanks for the tips though man619joe said:
If you replied earlier I would have totally used your advice man! I raelly appreciate your feedback.slickaz said:
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You, adventure-seeker, you.