"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Finish this sentence: "One day you and I should..."
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
WTF where did you learn that stupid tip from?Im guessing here because some big shots think ignoring is what the alpha male does...
"One day you and I should...plan out what you and I should do on another day"
"One day you and I should make sexy time!Great Success!" < goofy approach.
Or just scrap the text and call her and ask whats up
- go have you model skimpy clothes for me.
- test if sex really does have a side effect called pregnancy
dont ignore it, the chic is obviously seeing if you are creative enough for her, and shes hinting....
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Well I ended up ignoring it because I couldn't think of anything to reply with (I wasn't in the same mindset as you guys, but I'm starting to get it) and she sent it to me like half an hour after we got off the phone, so calling her wouldn't really be an option. Thanks for the tips though man619joe said:
If you replied earlier I would have totally used your advice man! I raelly appreciate your feedback.slickaz said:
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You, adventure-seeker, you.