"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Finish this sentence: "One day you and I should..."
- Thread starter Vice
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
WTF where did you learn that stupid tip from?Im guessing here because some big shots think ignoring is what the alpha male does...
"One day you and I should...plan out what you and I should do on another day"
"One day you and I should make sexy time!Great Success!" < goofy approach.
Or just scrap the text and call her and ask whats up
- go have you model skimpy clothes for me.
- test if sex really does have a side effect called pregnancy
dont ignore it, the chic is obviously seeing if you are creative enough for her, and shes hinting....
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Vice
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 23, 2007
- Messages
- 2,004
- Reaction score
- 186
Well I ended up ignoring it because I couldn't think of anything to reply with (I wasn't in the same mindset as you guys, but I'm starting to get it) and she sent it to me like half an hour after we got off the phone, so calling her wouldn't really be an option. Thanks for the tips though man619joe said:
If you replied earlier I would have totally used your advice man! I raelly appreciate your feedback.slickaz said:
Relationship-Buddy
Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 18, 2008
- Messages
- 102
- Reaction score
- 2
You, adventure-seeker, you.