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fingered my gf, now she is numb

The_Mole

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i rubbed hard a few times when i was fingering her but she didnt show any bad signs

now an hour after she says it feels numb

also she is a virgin

and its also my first time fingering a girl

did i hurt her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The ****? I think the ****oris usually goes numb after too much stimulation (don't know if an orgasm is required).
 

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First off, who cares. She enjoyed it. No bad signs, even better.

And yes, if she's a virgin and tight, she'll be sore. She won't be like in a dreadful hurt or anything and she's not going to blame you, so quit worrying.

If you worry now, what's it gonna be like when you actually have sex?
 

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and i'm a may 2002


u a active member


thanks for the advice


could she have lost some sensitivity? =(
 

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You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Haha, like I said, don't worry about it. No she hasn't lost sensitivity. And if she has, she'll get it back after she's not so sore anymore. I kinda remember my girlfriend still hurting a bit when she was sore and we tried some stuff. But they get over it.

This was meant to happen when they are very tight and still a virgin. Don't worry, she'll be fine. She'll be just about exactly the same in a few days.
 

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The ****oris is like the head of a penis. If you stimulate it too much like for an hour, it's going to be numb for good while.
 

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actually the **** has ten times the sensitivity of the penis... I can only imagine.:eek: ... imagine wacking off for 10 hours straight... I think you would be numb too...

I swear you've posting this before...


???????? If you say c lit it ****'s it... but ****oris is fine?????-?
 

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ya the cl*t is way more sensitive than your penis, so you can't rub it with the same pressure that you'd use on yourself.

Next time use both hands and plenty of lubrication, one hand to hold it open and stimulate the top of the inside and the other to stimulate the ****oris which is at the top on the outside.

Take your time, slow and gentle is better. Stop occasionally and kiss her all over mumbling crap about how great she looks and feels. Really, you're just trying to tease her a little by making her wait, and give her cl*t a break in the action. But you don't want her to know that.
 

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If she's a virgin, chances are that is the reason.

Over time it will not happen.
 

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Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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