"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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fingered my gf, now she is numb

The_Mole

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i rubbed hard a few times when i was fingering her but she didnt show any bad signs

now an hour after she says it feels numb

also she is a virgin

and its also my first time fingering a girl

did i hurt her?
 

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Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The ****? I think the ****oris usually goes numb after too much stimulation (don't know if an orgasm is required).
 

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First off, who cares. She enjoyed it. No bad signs, even better.

And yes, if she's a virgin and tight, she'll be sore. She won't be like in a dreadful hurt or anything and she's not going to blame you, so quit worrying.

If you worry now, what's it gonna be like when you actually have sex?
 

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and i'm a may 2002


u a active member


thanks for the advice


could she have lost some sensitivity? =(
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Haha, like I said, don't worry about it. No she hasn't lost sensitivity. And if she has, she'll get it back after she's not so sore anymore. I kinda remember my girlfriend still hurting a bit when she was sore and we tried some stuff. But they get over it.

This was meant to happen when they are very tight and still a virgin. Don't worry, she'll be fine. She'll be just about exactly the same in a few days.
 

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The ****oris is like the head of a penis. If you stimulate it too much like for an hour, it's going to be numb for good while.
 

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actually the **** has ten times the sensitivity of the penis... I can only imagine.:eek: ... imagine wacking off for 10 hours straight... I think you would be numb too...

I swear you've posting this before...


???????? If you say c lit it ****'s it... but ****oris is fine?????-?
 

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ya the cl*t is way more sensitive than your penis, so you can't rub it with the same pressure that you'd use on yourself.

Next time use both hands and plenty of lubrication, one hand to hold it open and stimulate the top of the inside and the other to stimulate the ****oris which is at the top on the outside.

Take your time, slow and gentle is better. Stop occasionally and kiss her all over mumbling crap about how great she looks and feels. Really, you're just trying to tease her a little by making her wait, and give her cl*t a break in the action. But you don't want her to know that.
 

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If she's a virgin, chances are that is the reason.

Over time it will not happen.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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