finding out if a girl has a BF and is interested

[napoleon]

Could this be a good way? When talking you say -doesn't your boyfriend....
I think if she says that she has one (maybe she has ) , she isn't interested. Many girls say they have a BF but in this case I don't think they would BS you(like a test) because this is just a conversation.If she says no than you could say in that case we could hang sometimes? What do you think?

 

[saki]

I would think that puts a negative perspective on you, automatically assuming she has a boyfriend. Somebody said it on here and it stuck with me. If she says she has a boyfriend, tell her that thats ok, and that you are not the jealous type! Thats a real good line imo. Most girls have them anyway, but whether they are happy with them, is a different story : )

 

[sapphire]

after establishing some rapport and if I sense some interest on her part, I will ask her directly if she has a bf or if she is married. If she says no, then that is her way of giving you a shot to ask her out. If she says yes, then you got to play it by ear because I agree that many girls will say they have a bf but will exchange him like a piece of clothing if she sees something better.

 

[squirrels]

If she doesn't mention her boyfriend, she doesn't have one.

Don't go probing. Assume that whatever she has, you can top it.

 

[SamePendo]

Originally posted by squirrels
If she doesn't mention her boyfriend, she doesn't have one.

Don't go probing. Assume that whatever she has, you can top it.

Good to see you're still here. Good to see you're right on!

 

[unistork]

Originally posted by squirrels
If she doesn't mention her boyfriend, she doesn't have one.

Don't go probing. Assume that whatever she has, you can top it.

That's not always the case... This girl I knew a while ago who flirted with me wouldn't ever mention she has a boyfriend until one of her friends came up to me and noticed we were flirting and told me "She has a boyfriend" so then when I went up to the girl and I asked "Do you have a boyfriend?" then she finally told me "Yes"...