"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Could this be a good way? When talking you say -doesn't your boyfriend....
I think if she says that she has one (maybe she has ) , she isn't interested. Many girls say they have a BF but in this case I don't think they would BS you(like a test) because this is just a conversation.If she says no than you could say in that case we could hang sometimes? What do you think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I would think that puts a negative perspective on you, automatically assuming she has a boyfriend. Somebody said it on here and it stuck with me. If she says she has a boyfriend, tell her that thats ok, and that you are not the jealous type! Thats a real good line imo. Most girls have them anyway, but whether they are happy with them, is a different story : )
 
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after establishing some rapport and if I sense some interest on her part, I will ask her directly if she has a bf or if she is married. If she says no, then that is her way of giving you a shot to ask her out. If she says yes, then you got to play it by ear because I agree that many girls will say they have a bf but will exchange him like a piece of clothing if she sees something better.
 
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If she doesn't mention her boyfriend, she doesn't have one. ;)

Don't go probing. Assume that whatever she has, you can top it.
 
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Originally posted by squirrels
If she doesn't mention her boyfriend, she doesn't have one. ;)

Don't go probing. Assume that whatever she has, you can top it.
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Good to see you're still here. Good to see you're right on!:cool:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by squirrels
If she doesn't mention her boyfriend, she doesn't have one. ;)

Don't go probing. Assume that whatever she has, you can top it.
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That's not always the case... This girl I knew a while ago who flirted with me wouldn't ever mention she has a boyfriend until one of her friends came up to me and noticed we were flirting and told me "She has a boyfriend" so then when I went up to the girl and I asked "Do you have a boyfriend?" then she finally told me "Yes"...
 
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