"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Finding girls is 100 times harder for me because..

summersky

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Hi everyone,

it is because I am only attracted to black women. And in my country (in Europe) there are not many of them. Maybe 1 percent of the population, if any. Most of the time I am doing Online Dating because otherwise I would rarely meet some of them. If I am walking around in town for some hours, I see maybe 1-5 black women. And maybe one of them is my type. So daygame seems almost impossible.
All these circumstances making the game so much harder..

Dont really know what to do about it.. Maybe you have some ideas? Moving to a country where more of them are would be like moving to paradise. But I cant do it at the moment..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who Dares Win

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Go to Atlanta, I've never been there but plenty of guys here keep crying and b1tching that the city is crap unless you are looking for black women.
 

Scaramouche

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Dear SummerSky,
I also like Girls of Colour,not ours I hasten to say,last time I interfaced with one,I just about needed hospital attention,she bit and scratched so much...Aah a night to remember...But no,the reason I write is to address the great Literati out there...There is a learned word for the Attraction people of very different racial background have for one another...A prize for he who can enlighten me LOL.
 

Augustus_McCrae

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I had a black girlfriend when I was 19. God, was she gorgeous.

Her skin was like silk and she had amazing kegel control. She could sit on top of me and get me off without moving her body.

I still think about her in the middle of he night sometimes...

-Augustus-
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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summersky

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Thanks for the answers.

Like I said moving to another country is not an option. I find many online but still it is not easy.
Its a dillemma :-(
 

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Come to Africa, more to the point, come to Nigeria.

The did literally have to pull them off you.
 
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