"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Finding girls is 100 times harder for me because..

summersky

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Hi everyone,

it is because I am only attracted to black women. And in my country (in Europe) there are not many of them. Maybe 1 percent of the population, if any. Most of the time I am doing Online Dating because otherwise I would rarely meet some of them. If I am walking around in town for some hours, I see maybe 1-5 black women. And maybe one of them is my type. So daygame seems almost impossible.
All these circumstances making the game so much harder..

Dont really know what to do about it.. Maybe you have some ideas? Moving to a country where more of them are would be like moving to paradise. But I cant do it at the moment..
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Who Dares Win

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Go to Atlanta, I've never been there but plenty of guys here keep crying and b1tching that the city is crap unless you are looking for black women.
 

Scaramouche

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Dear SummerSky,
I also like Girls of Colour,not ours I hasten to say,last time I interfaced with one,I just about needed hospital attention,she bit and scratched so much...Aah a night to remember...But no,the reason I write is to address the great Literati out there...There is a learned word for the Attraction people of very different racial background have for one another...A prize for he who can enlighten me LOL.
 

Augustus_McCrae

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I had a black girlfriend when I was 19. God, was she gorgeous.

Her skin was like silk and she had amazing kegel control. She could sit on top of me and get me off without moving her body.

I still think about her in the middle of he night sometimes...

-Augustus-
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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summersky

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Thanks for the answers.

Like I said moving to another country is not an option. I find many online but still it is not easy.
Its a dillemma :-(
 

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Come to Africa, more to the point, come to Nigeria.

The did literally have to pull them off you.
 
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