"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Finding girls is 100 times harder for me because..

summersky

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Hi everyone,

it is because I am only attracted to black women. And in my country (in Europe) there are not many of them. Maybe 1 percent of the population, if any. Most of the time I am doing Online Dating because otherwise I would rarely meet some of them. If I am walking around in town for some hours, I see maybe 1-5 black women. And maybe one of them is my type. So daygame seems almost impossible.
All these circumstances making the game so much harder..

Dont really know what to do about it.. Maybe you have some ideas? Moving to a country where more of them are would be like moving to paradise. But I cant do it at the moment..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Who Dares Win

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Go to Atlanta, I've never been there but plenty of guys here keep crying and b1tching that the city is crap unless you are looking for black women.
 

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Dear SummerSky,
I also like Girls of Colour,not ours I hasten to say,last time I interfaced with one,I just about needed hospital attention,she bit and scratched so much...Aah a night to remember...But no,the reason I write is to address the great Literati out there...There is a learned word for the Attraction people of very different racial background have for one another...A prize for he who can enlighten me LOL.
 

Augustus_McCrae

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I had a black girlfriend when I was 19. God, was she gorgeous.

Her skin was like silk and she had amazing kegel control. She could sit on top of me and get me off without moving her body.

I still think about her in the middle of he night sometimes...

-Augustus-
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Thanks for the answers.

Like I said moving to another country is not an option. I find many online but still it is not easy.
Its a dillemma :-(
 

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Come to Africa, more to the point, come to Nigeria.

The did literally have to pull them off you.
 
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