"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Finding girls is 100 times harder for me because..

summersky

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Hi everyone,

it is because I am only attracted to black women. And in my country (in Europe) there are not many of them. Maybe 1 percent of the population, if any. Most of the time I am doing Online Dating because otherwise I would rarely meet some of them. If I am walking around in town for some hours, I see maybe 1-5 black women. And maybe one of them is my type. So daygame seems almost impossible.
All these circumstances making the game so much harder..

Dont really know what to do about it.. Maybe you have some ideas? Moving to a country where more of them are would be like moving to paradise. But I cant do it at the moment..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Who Dares Win

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Go to Atlanta, I've never been there but plenty of guys here keep crying and b1tching that the city is crap unless you are looking for black women.
 

Scaramouche

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Dear SummerSky,
I also like Girls of Colour,not ours I hasten to say,last time I interfaced with one,I just about needed hospital attention,she bit and scratched so much...Aah a night to remember...But no,the reason I write is to address the great Literati out there...There is a learned word for the Attraction people of very different racial background have for one another...A prize for he who can enlighten me LOL.
 

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I had a black girlfriend when I was 19. God, was she gorgeous.

Her skin was like silk and she had amazing kegel control. She could sit on top of me and get me off without moving her body.

I still think about her in the middle of he night sometimes...

-Augustus-
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thanks for the answers.

Like I said moving to another country is not an option. I find many online but still it is not easy.
Its a dillemma :-(
 

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Come to Africa, more to the point, come to Nigeria.

The did literally have to pull them off you.
 
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