backseatjuan
Banned
Find the cat in this picture!
Where is he?
Where is he?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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- Thread starter backseatjuan
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
backseatjuan
Banned
Where is the cat???? Find that cat in this picture!
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
LOL, now that I've had my Geritol:
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
About 20 years ago I used to drive a parkway to work that had very narrow and winding curves. It was made for Model A Fords, not for today's traffic.
They were in the process of widening and straightening the road, and I would be in slow traffic every day. But much to my delight, I would see a black rabbit on the grass every morning in approximately the same place... He became my little friend and I would look forward to seeing him every day.
Once day I was driving by very slowly and I looked for my little friend. I saw him, and as I drove by I discovered that my little friend was a piece of a rubber tire. True story.
They were in the process of widening and straightening the road, and I would be in slow traffic every day. But much to my delight, I would see a black rabbit on the grass every morning in approximately the same place... He became my little friend and I would look forward to seeing him every day.
Once day I was driving by very slowly and I looked for my little friend. I saw him, and as I drove by I discovered that my little friend was a piece of a rubber tire. True story.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
backseatjuan
Banned
Find the cat!
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I found it but I'll give someone else a shot.
backseatjuan
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taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
backseatjuan
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
backseatjuan
Banned
Find the cat!
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Yup, on top of the cabinet.
backseatjuan
Banned
Find the cat!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
OsirisII
Don Juan
Right bottom at tree. Looks like a bigger cat.
backseatjuan
Banned
Find the cat!
