backseatjuan
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Where is he?
Where is he?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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- Thread starter backseatjuan
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
backseatjuan
Banned
Where is the cat???? Find that cat in this picture!
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
LOL, now that I've had my Geritol:
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
About 20 years ago I used to drive a parkway to work that had very narrow and winding curves. It was made for Model A Fords, not for today's traffic.
They were in the process of widening and straightening the road, and I would be in slow traffic every day. But much to my delight, I would see a black rabbit on the grass every morning in approximately the same place... He became my little friend and I would look forward to seeing him every day.
Once day I was driving by very slowly and I looked for my little friend. I saw him, and as I drove by I discovered that my little friend was a piece of a rubber tire. True story.
They were in the process of widening and straightening the road, and I would be in slow traffic every day. But much to my delight, I would see a black rabbit on the grass every morning in approximately the same place... He became my little friend and I would look forward to seeing him every day.
Once day I was driving by very slowly and I looked for my little friend. I saw him, and as I drove by I discovered that my little friend was a piece of a rubber tire. True story.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
backseatjuan
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Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I found it but I'll give someone else a shot.
backseatjuan
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taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
backseatjuan
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
backseatjuan
Banned
Find the cat!
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Yup, on top of the cabinet.
backseatjuan
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
OsirisII
Don Juan
Right bottom at tree. Looks like a bigger cat.
backseatjuan
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