"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Finally was able to use advice from the big guys here. . . .

spesmilitis

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This spring break I was able to: get 2g protien/lb of body weight, sleep 9 hours a night with a protien+fat snack in the middle of the night, concentrate only on lifting cuz I took grappling off.

Gained two solid pounds in one week. If there was any fat, it would have burned off by now during two grappling practices I had this week. My body sucks at maintaining a high enough body fat for bulking.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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donjuanjovi

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Good work spes! Hard work and dedication DO pay off. :woo:
 

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Good job, I'm envious dude!
Envious of the fact you can sleep 9 hours each night. Even if I had the time, I would be incapable of that :D
 

spesmilitis

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insidious said:
Good job, I'm envious dude!
Envious of the fact you can sleep 9 hours each night. Even if I had the time, I would be incapable of that :D
Not each night, only during spring break. Now that i'm back to school, it'll drop down to 6-7 hours a night. Even down to 4-5 sometimes.
 

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nice! 2lbs is a lot for a week bro. and school is a ***** since it kills your sleep and eating habits/timing. im on spring break too but i freaking got sick -_-
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I would just like to note: you don't know what the fkk you are talking about spes.

I know that's a harsh thing to say. But you seem to be settling into that comfortable zone a newbie gets into where he thinks he's finally started to make sense of the loads and loads of info out there; the zone where you finally think you "know something" about bodybuilding. That's a pretty dangerous place for a newbie -- for ANYONE -- to be.

So I am just pointing out that what you think you know -- as demonstrated in your post -- is basically just wrong, unfounded or plain stupid. But I'll leave you to it. Good luck.
 

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danielzxc said:
I would just like to note: you don't know what the fkk you are talking about spes.

I know that's a harsh thing to say. But you seem to be settling into that comfortable zone a newbie gets into where he thinks he's finally started to make sense of the loads and loads of info out there; the zone where you finally think you "know something" about bodybuilding. That's a pretty dangerous place for a newbie -- for ANYONE -- to be.

So I am just pointing out that what you think you know -- as demonstrated in your post -- is basically just wrong, unfounded or plain stupid. But I'll leave you to it. Good luck.

What was the point of your post? To get attention?

You critisize my knowledge, but you won't specify what part of my knowledge is wrong? I don't care what I 'seem' like to you, but if you would like to discuss nutrition and/or training, feel free to respond.

BTW, I'll always consider myself on the 'tip of the iceburg' in terms of knowlege. The training and diet advice I follow are those from people who have succeeded in gaining strength and size.
 
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