Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Finally was able to use advice from the big guys here. . . .

spesmilitis

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This spring break I was able to: get 2g protien/lb of body weight, sleep 9 hours a night with a protien+fat snack in the middle of the night, concentrate only on lifting cuz I took grappling off.

Gained two solid pounds in one week. If there was any fat, it would have burned off by now during two grappling practices I had this week. My body sucks at maintaining a high enough body fat for bulking.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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donjuanjovi

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Good work spes! Hard work and dedication DO pay off. :woo:
 

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Good job, I'm envious dude!
Envious of the fact you can sleep 9 hours each night. Even if I had the time, I would be incapable of that :D
 

spesmilitis

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insidious said:
Good job, I'm envious dude!
Envious of the fact you can sleep 9 hours each night. Even if I had the time, I would be incapable of that :D
Not each night, only during spring break. Now that i'm back to school, it'll drop down to 6-7 hours a night. Even down to 4-5 sometimes.
 

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nice! 2lbs is a lot for a week bro. and school is a ***** since it kills your sleep and eating habits/timing. im on spring break too but i freaking got sick -_-
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I would just like to note: you don't know what the fkk you are talking about spes.

I know that's a harsh thing to say. But you seem to be settling into that comfortable zone a newbie gets into where he thinks he's finally started to make sense of the loads and loads of info out there; the zone where you finally think you "know something" about bodybuilding. That's a pretty dangerous place for a newbie -- for ANYONE -- to be.

So I am just pointing out that what you think you know -- as demonstrated in your post -- is basically just wrong, unfounded or plain stupid. But I'll leave you to it. Good luck.
 

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danielzxc said:
I would just like to note: you don't know what the fkk you are talking about spes.

I know that's a harsh thing to say. But you seem to be settling into that comfortable zone a newbie gets into where he thinks he's finally started to make sense of the loads and loads of info out there; the zone where you finally think you "know something" about bodybuilding. That's a pretty dangerous place for a newbie -- for ANYONE -- to be.

So I am just pointing out that what you think you know -- as demonstrated in your post -- is basically just wrong, unfounded or plain stupid. But I'll leave you to it. Good luck.

What was the point of your post? To get attention?

You critisize my knowledge, but you won't specify what part of my knowledge is wrong? I don't care what I 'seem' like to you, but if you would like to discuss nutrition and/or training, feel free to respond.

BTW, I'll always consider myself on the 'tip of the iceburg' in terms of knowlege. The training and diet advice I follow are those from people who have succeeded in gaining strength and size.
 
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