"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FINALLY! Got her number...but IL seems low...

Latinoman

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Last Man Standing said:
Maybe she never received your message for whatever reason and she thinks that you did not call? Or maybe she is too shy to call back -- shy girls don't call dudes!

You should always call back twice to follow-up a few days later and then leave her alone! One call could be missed but you know two calls are being ignored!
Excellent advice.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Called her...

Yes, I did leave a message.

Kept it short and light. I did not say, "give me a call back" or anything like that...

Am I expecting a reply? Nah...

Insticts tell me what I already know...I think as my ego is "huge", I tend to deny when I am getting dissed and such.

I won't contact her again.

D - O - N - E

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what's her number? if she doesn't call you back we will all call her and rip on her.

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1-800-IM-A-BYTCH

Ha!

I should just pretend I don't know her if I run into her again...

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